we had to do this..being that our wedding was in NY..we then had to drive from NY to FL and then FL back to KS
we needed as much room in the car as possible so boxed giftrs werent really a good idea
we just had word of mouth go around saying that if you are going to get us a boxed gift..have it sent to our apt in ks due to the moving..and i think i only got 2 at the reception..but they were small enough that it didnt matter
but when we got home there was a ton of stuff..which was nice too
This is actually a good point that I didn't think about since FH and I will be traveling to LI for our wedding. But there's no way in hell I would ever put it on the invitation, that's so obnoxious!