Ok...lets see if I can sum this up as short as possible..LOL I had a friend that I knew since 6th grade that I wanted in my BP...when it came to order the dress..she was acting shadey. After a MILLION emails, she finally said that she can't afford it. When I ordered to pay..she STILL said no...but whatever. So, time has gone by that she is not in my BP. It hurt, but I moved on. Well, NYE I wrote a bunch of people from HS messages and such to see how they are all doing. I apoligzied for being distant and explained why...wedding planning takes everything out of you. Well... she writes me back today.... took her long enough! She tells me that she's pissed at ME....two reasons. One... I didn't call her back the last time she called...uhm..doesn't the phone work BOTH ways..?? IF I Always call you back, then suddenly didnt, would n't you be concerned and want to call ME instead to make sure I was OK...??? TWO... that she put me to a test... Ya see... she got marred Dec 07..I was her BM...she told me all along that she wasn't going to have a MOH...until the DAY OF....then she said the other girl was her MOH...that hurt...but whatever. Now, her mariage started to fail....and she had a little baby. She ended up starting to see another guy when she finally kicked her HUSBAND out. Well now... this is the TEST she put me through..she only told ME and MADE me sware that I wouldn't tell MY FH!! Which for some odd reason I listened. Well, she gave the vide that she was with someone else b/c she would get texts at 1am from some guy and would have to suddenly leave!! So, my FH obviously FIGURED it out...and told her HUSBAND, which is FHs friend!! Geeez! Soo...her husband found out, and she was flipping out at me through an email...
AUGH! I'm soo mad right now..I mean it's all just BS stuff... and she has no concept of everything that I DID do for her. It's sooo unfair. I just dont get her.....
What do you ladies think...should I just knock her from my life.....or should I keep trying to prove that I did nothing wrong...
FutureMrsM
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Obviously she likes to play games, I'm sorry you're going through this and know it hurts, but you need to cut her off... You don't need that drama surrounding you
EmiNoa628
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I remember you wrote about the situation with your friend... She is PLAIN WRONG!!! How can she do that to you... To add to her nerved involve you in her personal life and her decisions... One day or another the truth comes out and now you look wrong in front of her husband!!!
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The last thing I need from my friends is a test. She sounds messed up. Not snowflake messed up, but messed up nonetheless. You don't deserve that from a friend.
sharivera
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Good riddance ..she has many issues and problems which are NOT your fault....
MEMEJOR
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Posted by FutureMrsM
Obviously she likes to play games, I'm sorry you're going through this and know it hurts, but you need to cut her off... You don't need that drama surrounding you
amen to that...
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Posted by Suzanner
The last thing I need from my friends is a test. She sounds messed up. Not snowflake messed up, but messed up nonetheless. You don't deserve that from a friend.
Def NOT a Snowflake issue! LOL
elysemichelle
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i would totally just kick her out of my life!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 she is nuts!!!!!!!!!!!
Dani777
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Hahaha... def. sounds like a plan to me...I'm done with her games. thanks girls!!
Mrs. Bernabe
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I know it's tough. I have a 'Best Friend' since 3rd grade. I don't want to over shadow your story, but I always looked for her went to her home...blah blah, she then moved 2 blocks away from my home never visited me within the 2 yrs and claimed she was busy playing wife and then mother. Well I told her I didn't want anyone with kids in my BP bc I didn't want to tell me how she has hurt me...ends up day of she comes up to me tells me off bc my MOH was preggo. I still call her and she takes forever to call me back. I just realize that I am not that important in her life as much as I held her to be important in mine. It's sad, but if you don't feel the love reciprocated then forget about her, and if she ever looks for you then you tell her how she hurt you and explain your side. My best friends sister did not show the day of my wedding and I know its bc she's upset that I didn't have her in my BP, I really would love to one day see her so she can just tell me something and I will just respond and it will shut her up. In the end you know the truth you know your the good person so don't worry....if she doesn't care you shouldn't either.
Dani777
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Thanks ladies... I think I'm just gonna suck it up till after the wedding..I don't want anymore drama... and since she already knows soo much about my wedding..I don't want her to just 'show up' and start a scene...OR even, have someone she knows do it. Soo.. whatever. She said that if I still want to be freinds then I need to call HER...HAHA. I am not even mad about this no more! I find it sooo freaking FUNNY! She's got some MAJOR issues!! And, I don't feel bad for her no more! HAHAHAHA
