On your wedding day...

What would be the one thing that would ruin it for you? I was just looking on another board and a bride was upset about a few things at her wedding and I started to think about what would upset me at my wedding...

The absolute truth is, I don't think anything would RUIN my day. So long as FH and I are there I will be smiling all day! The only thing that would upset me was if a vendor didn't show up, but with who we've booked so far, I don't have any worries...

How about you ladies?

If my ex or his ex showed up at our church, drunk, screaming 'YOU CHEATING BASTARDS'

Other than that, I'm pretty easy.

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Posted by Mimacat

If my ex or his ex showed up at our church, drunk, screaming 'YOU CHEATING BASTARDS'

Other than that, I'm pretty easy.

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LMAO

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Posted by Jess125483

I thought of one thing but I'm scared to write it, as if it wiill jinx it!!!!!!!!!!

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LOL.

I understand that when you plan such a big event and put so much time, energy, effort and money into something, you want it to go perfect, however, is it worth being upset on your wedding day? I'm not saying it's wrong, I'm just asking

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Posted by mao0426

FH and I were talking about this last night...his mom told him that his cousin was dating one of the Pussy Cat Dolls...and he believes her lol...so he said wouldnt it be great if one of them showed up to the wedding...I was like uuuhhh NOOOO...I wouldnt want anyone to take the spotlight from us thats rediculous

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Yeah, I wouldn't want anything to take the spotlight away from us either. I do plan on having a bday cake for one of my BMs because it will be her 30th bday.

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Jess125483

I thought of one thing but I'm scared to write it, as if it wiill jinx it!!!!!!!!!!

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LOL.

I understand that when you plan such a big event and put so much time, energy, effort and money into something, you want it to go perfect, however, is it worth being upset on your wedding day? I'm not saying it's wrong, I'm just asking

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WHat if your RH lost electricity in the middle of your reception?

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Posted by Jess125483

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Jess125483

I thought of one thing but I'm scared to write it, as if it wiill jinx it!!!!!!!!!!

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LOL.

I understand that when you plan such a big event and put so much time, energy, effort and money into something, you want it to go perfect, however, is it worth being upset on your wedding day? I'm not saying it's wrong, I'm just asking

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WHat if your RH lost electricity in the middle of your reception?

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OMG that would be horrible! But you know what turn on some candles and lets turn it into something romantic (I would freak though lol)

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Posted by Jess125483

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Jess125483

I thought of one thing but I'm scared to write it, as if it wiill jinx it!!!!!!!!!!

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LOL.

I understand that when you plan such a big event and put so much time, energy, effort and money into something, you want it to go perfect, however, is it worth being upset on your wedding day? I'm not saying it's wrong, I'm just asking

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WHat if your RH lost electricity in the middle of your reception?

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It would be upsetting, but yelling, screaming, crying won't make the situation better... plus, my family is crazy, they'd move the party outside. I am well aware of what can go wrong, but I'm just wondering how much time I will spend upset about it. And how other people feel about things going wrong.

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Posted by MiciB115

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Posted by mao0426

FH and I were talking about this last night...his mom told him that his cousin was dating one of the Pussy Cat Dolls...and he believes her lol...so he said wouldnt it be great if one of them showed up to the wedding...I was like uuuhhh NOOOO...I wouldnt want anyone to take the spotlight from us thats rediculous

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Yeah, I wouldn't want anything to take the spotlight away from us either. I do plan on having a bday cake for one of my BMs because it will be her 30th bday.

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I am doing that also for one of my BM at my shower...but thats something nice and it is your choice...if it was unexpected thats when I would be mad...like those people that got upset because Oprah showed up at their wedding

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Posted by mao0426

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Posted by MiciB115

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Posted by mao0426

FH and I were talking about this last night...his mom told him that his cousin was dating one of the Pussy Cat Dolls...and he believes her lol...so he said wouldnt it be great if one of them showed up to the wedding...I was like uuuhhh NOOOO...I wouldnt want anyone to take the spotlight from us thats rediculous

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Yeah, I wouldn't want anything to take the spotlight away from us either. I do plan on having a bday cake for one of my BMs because it will be her 30th bday.

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I am doing that also for one of my BM at my shower...but thats something nice and it is your choice...if it was unexpected thats when I would be mad...like those people that got upset because Oprah showed up at their wedding

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I would have been really ticked off if she did that to me! I don't like her!

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Posted by Mimacat

A girl I used to be friends with (she turned psyhco b*tch) got married and one of her husbands friends brought a date (not a gf!!) who showed up in a floor lenght, white, lacy gown. ***!? I'd have to laugh it off though. Not worth getting upset over!

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That is what I mean... I wouldn't be upset if someone wore white, ivory, beads, etc. I only have 5 hours in that RH and I am not wasting a minute getting upset over things like that. BUT that is just me. To other brides, that is cause for throwing people out. And there is nothing wrong with that, i just wouldn't waste the energy

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Posted by MiciB115

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Posted by mao0426

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Posted by MiciB115

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Posted by mao0426

FH and I were talking about this last night...his mom told him that his cousin was dating one of the Pussy Cat Dolls...and he believes her lol...so he said wouldnt it be great if one of them showed up to the wedding...I was like uuuhhh NOOOO...I wouldnt want anyone to take the spotlight from us thats rediculous

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Yeah, I wouldn't want anything to take the spotlight away from us either. I do plan on having a bday cake for one of my BMs because it will be her 30th bday.

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I am doing that also for one of my BM at my shower...but thats something nice and it is your choice...if it was unexpected thats when I would be mad...like those people that got upset because Oprah showed up at their wedding

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I would have been really ticked off if she did that to me! I don't like her!

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Even if she was my idol..I would be like GET OUT!!

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Mimacat

A girl I used to be friends with (she turned psyhco b*tch) got married and one of her husbands friends brought a date (not a gf!!) who showed up in a floor lenght, white, lacy gown. ***!? I'd have to laugh it off though. Not worth getting upset over!

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That is what I mean... I wouldn't be upset if someone wore white, ivory, beads, etc. I only have 5 hours in that RH and I am not wasting a minute getting upset over things like that. BUT that is just me. To other brides, that is cause for throwing people out. And there is nothing wrong with that, i just wouldn't waste the energy

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Plus, honestly, youre the one in a big white friggin dress with a tulle headdress, whats really going to distract your guests away from you?

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Posted by Mimacat

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Mimacat

A girl I used to be friends with (she turned psyhco b*tch) got married and one of her husbands friends brought a date (not a gf!!) who showed up in a floor lenght, white, lacy gown. ***!? I'd have to laugh it off though. Not worth getting upset over!

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That is what I mean... I wouldn't be upset if someone wore white, ivory, beads, etc. I only have 5 hours in that RH and I am not wasting a minute getting upset over things like that. BUT that is just me. To other brides, that is cause for throwing people out. And there is nothing wrong with that, i just wouldn't waste the energy

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Plus, honestly, youre the one in a big white friggin dress with a tulle headdress, whats really going to distract your guests away from you?

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right, everyone there knows it's YOUR wedding...

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Posted by Mimacat

You know what would be one thing that would get me upset? If someone like the best man got sh*tfaced and threw up on my dress. I think I'd just go home!

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that reminds me of that episode of super sweet 16 when the girls best friend throws up on her... The smell or sight of vomit makes me gag, i would have thrown up if I were her...