one of my BM

Original post by hsacks23r

Jul 21, 2005 11:32 AM

Doesn't really seem to be all into it,I know its not her wedding but come on. She rarely calls me and has no input on any thing-- makes me think did I make a mistake????

Jennie0898 Posted: Jul 21, 2005 03:28 PM

Re: one of my BM

Posted by MissingTheBGene

Posted by Jennie0898

Posted by MissingTheBGene

I think Jenn and Jess really summed it up well.

Hey MissingTheBGene was I more SUBTLE this time???

You are too funny! No need to be subtle, I like ya that way!

Awww thanks!! You're making me

glinda_goodwitch Posted: Jul 21, 2005 04:34 PM

Re: one of my BM

Maybe closer to the wedding you can have a get-together to have bridesmaid bonding, and do something fun. You can make crafts for the wedding together and then maybe she'll get more into wedding planning.

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Jul 21, 2005 04:37 PM

Re: one of my BM

Posted by AmyMarie

I think I am in the minority here, but try to rememeber that your wedding is almost a year away, and that some people might have other things on there mind. I know it is difficult to think that it isn't all about you at a time like this, but it is YOUR wedding day..look at you FI and realize that the two of you is what it is all about.
Support is great and of course she should be ineterested, but some people find it hard to be 100% gaga over the wedding.
All the girls I chose are my friends and I love them and even though one or two has a pretty busy schedule and doesn't call or seem to be all over me for details..I would never think I made a mistake. I also chose 3 of my sisters who have a combined total of 8 kids between them so I am not hearing much from them.
My suggestion is that you remember the reason you chose her and feel happy that she will be there to witness your big day!

I totally agree with you!