One of the girls I asked to be my bridesmaid said no

Original post by brittndave

Jul 22, 2009 08:21 PM

She said that she doesn't have the money to come into town so I guess that means she and her fiance won't even be coming to the wedding... great

jcreilly Posted: Jul 23, 2009 09:30 AM

Re: One of the girls I asked to be my bridesmaid said no

They may still come to the wedding!

NewYorker09 Posted: Jul 23, 2009 10:22 AM

Re: One of the girls I asked to be my bridesmaid said no

I can imagine that being really disappointing but like the other girls said, at least she didn't say yes then back out or fall through at the last minute. That is a lot of time and money for a person to give up when they're in your bridal party and not everyone is able to do so. I hope they're able to make it to your wedding. You never know how bad of a financial situation someone might be in and times are really tough for a lot of people now!

FutureLW Posted: Jul 23, 2009 10:23 AM

Re: One of the girls I asked to be my bridesmaid said no

Try not to take offense to it...I know it's disapointing but she's just being honest. Times are tough now

Soon2bMrsH Posted: Jul 23, 2009 10:45 AM

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aww that stinks, but atleast she was upfront with you, and it wont cause drama later on. i still have some peeps to ask, waiting for the engagement party next weekend. hopefully they dont say no lol!