Ooo no..

bettybcafe Posted: Dec 15, 2006 12:27 AM

Ooo no..

An old friend (from Junior high) just contacted me through yahoo..and of course we are catching up and stuff...so I tell her I am getting married in July..and what does she ask? You guessed it....Can I come? W TF!!! we are not that close...gee..what do you say...I told her 'well its going to be small and intimate trying to save money' and it was left at that...I mean am I wrong?

charisma Posted: Dec 15, 2006 12:36 AM

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just tell her you have already reached your max and the guest list is finalized...and suggest a lunch where you can share wedding day pics with her.....a friend would understand

milana Posted: Dec 15, 2006 12:44 AM

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i dislike when people self invite themselves to weddings!

bettybcafe Posted: Dec 15, 2006 12:44 AM

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Posted by milana

i dislike when people self invite themselves to weddings!

I know..its so ackward...

PegaLega Posted: Dec 15, 2006 12:52 AM

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OMG why do people do that???

bettybcafe Posted: Dec 15, 2006 12:54 AM

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Posted by kismet8601

OMG why do people do that???

Yea I know...I mean I havent spoken to her in YEARS and she has the nerve to ask me this..and then she added one of these at the end of self invite

PegaLega Posted: Dec 15, 2006 12:59 AM

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Posted by bettybcafe

Posted by kismet8601

OMG why do people do that???

Yea I know...I mean I havent spoken to her in YEARS and she has the nerve to ask me this..and then she added one of these at the end of self invite

what a jack@ss!
Im uncouth...(sp?) I will tell people straight out..ummm do you really think that after years of not talking to you I would invite you!

PegaLega Posted: Dec 15, 2006 01:00 AM

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I just realized I am inviting some of the ladies on here to my wedding!!!!!!

bettybcafe Posted: Dec 15, 2006 01:04 AM

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Posted by kismet8601

I just realized I am inviting some of the ladies on here to my wedding!!!!!!

PegaLega Posted: Dec 15, 2006 01:07 AM

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Posted by bettybcafe

Posted by kismet8601

I just realized I am inviting some of the ladies on here to my wedding!!!!!!

I am inviting some of the girls I have become friends with to the wedding

But Ive put some people on my B list that are people I have known for years!!! Just b/c Im not that close to them, is that mean?

bettybcafe Posted: Dec 15, 2006 01:08 AM

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Posted by kismet8601

Posted by bettybcafe

Posted by kismet8601

I just realized I am inviting some of the ladies on here to my wedding!!!!!!

I am inviting some of the girls I have become friends with to the wedding

But Ive put some people on my B list that are people I have known for years!!! Just b/c Im not that close to them, is that mean?

OOOOOO lol...no not mean, but lets end this convo in case they catch on to what ur doing..

PegaLega Posted: Dec 15, 2006 01:14 AM

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true

hmv12 Posted: Dec 15, 2006 08:26 AM

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I don't think your wrong...If you haven't had contact in a while, what makes her think it's ok to ask??? Some people have such a set of BA***

nposa07 Posted: Dec 15, 2006 08:37 AM

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I don't think you're wrong at all....and not to sound mean or anything but I would never have the guts to just come right out and ask someone that...that takes b@lls ya know! You have a plan that you should stick to unless you really wanted her there then I would say invite her! I'm having a very difficult time myself learning that you just can't please everyone....cuz otherwise I would be like ! Good luck though!