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OOT Guests

hb123 Posted:

OOT Guests

I will be having alot of OOT guests as my FH is from Philadelphia. Someone mentioned to me that it is traditional for the bride and groom to pay for the OOT guest accomodations. Obviously this is not an option, as we would then be unable to pay for the actual wedding!

Has anyone else ever heard of this?
Chanwich Posted:

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WHOA!!!! I've never heard of that, I hope its not true cuz we definitely can't afford it! FH is from way upstate so his whole side will be OOT. We wouldn't even be able to afford the wedding if we had to pay for all of them!

KitWisdom Posted:

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I’ve heard of it, but I think that if you don’t, that’s fine too since you’ll probably be getting them a discount rate. My family is paying for FH’s family for one night at the inn next to the RH…the rest of the time, his family is staying in their favorite hotel in the city.

blu6385 Posted:

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i have never heard of this ... i have heard that if you have a destination wedding then you are to pay for your guests accomidations

AmandaLynn04 Posted:

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I have heard of this.... about half of my guests are OOT, and we are not paying for their hotel.

JTsGal829 Posted:

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i've heard of it if you're like taking off and getting married on an island..but if it's PA.. or something i don't really thing you have to! people who want to be there will be there!!!!!!!!!

hb123 Posted:

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Posted by JTsGal829

i've heard of it if you're like taking off and getting married on an island..but if it's PA.. or something i don't really thing you have to! people who want to be there will be there!!!!!!!!!



We honestly couldn't afford to! I was just a bit taken aback and was curious if anyone else had ever heard of such a thing!

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