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OOT's with guests?
brooklynbridezilla
Posted: Nov 11, 2004 01:33 PM+

Posted: Nov 11, 2004 01:33 PM
OOT's with guests?
I am flying in my best friend from Colorado for my wedding (he is originally from NY). He will not know a lot of people at our wedding- maybe two or three. Should I invite him with a guest? I can't afford to pay for his guests flight and hotel too (if they are OOT), but I don't think he would invite anyone from NY. I just don't want him to feel out of place and awkward. On the other hand, if he is coming ALL the way out here for me, I feel like he is entitled to one.
Any ideas/suggestions?
becks23
Posted: Nov 11, 2004 01:39 PM+

Posted: Nov 11, 2004 01:39 PM
Re: OOT's with guests?
I would invite him with a guest, but not pay for the guest's flight and/or hotel.
o17range
Posted: Nov 11, 2004 01:47 PM+

Posted: Nov 11, 2004 01:47 PM
Re: OOT's with guests?
I would probably do the same as the previous poster--invite him with a guest, but it would be up to your friend and/or his guest to pay for her travel.That way the ball is in their court--at least you extended the invitation for him to bring a guest!
On another note, I think it is very thoughtful and generous of you to fly him in for your special occasion!
DebMaher
Posted: Nov 11, 2004 01:56 PM+

Posted: Nov 11, 2004 01:56 PM
Re: OOT's with guests?
Would invite with guest, that is however, more than generous. You are in no way obligated to pay for any of his/their expenses.
mushsgrl
Posted: Nov 11, 2004 05:45 PM+

Posted: Nov 11, 2004 05:45 PM
Re: OOT's with guests?
I would invite him with one. We are inviting the OOT's with a guest. Our friends that dont have steady signinficant others by the time the invites go out are being invited solo because they all know eachotherWelcome New Vendors
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