OK....So, I received a wedding invitation of a person who is related to me, but we don't have much of a relationship. Aside from the poor taste in many things, wedding related, the person also gave me a registry card along with the invitation! (I thought this was a faux pax) I found out that there will be a shower for her, but I have not gotten any information except this card, nor do I think I'm invited...LOL... Would you give a gift from the registry if you were not invited to the shower? Also, if you know this person would not spend the same amount on you for your wedding,(she thinks $20 is a lot) what amount do you think I should give her for her wedding?
bettybcafe
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Hmm...she thinks 20 bucks is a lot..yikes ! Maybe you should buy $50 worth of items from her registry..that would be my max for her lolol
ido07
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Are you going to the wedding? If so, then I think that whatever you decide to give would be appropriate, whether it is something from the registry or $. I wouldn't send a gift in addition to that if you aren't invited to the shower.
Jennifer907
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Posted by ido07
Are you going to the wedding? If so, then I think that whatever you decide to give would be appropriate, whether it is something from the registry or $. I wouldn't send a gift in addition to that if you aren't invited to the shower.
I agree. I wouldn't do 2 gifts.
Queensbebe
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If ure going to the wedding I would just give a little more than whatever u think it costs a head. I absolutely would not send a shower gift tho unless I got an invite specifically for that...that's nervy!
HenryAlba07
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If you're not invited to the shower, then you shouldn't buy her a gift from her registry. I would just give her enough money at the wedding to cover your plate.
IMO...you should always come out the bigger person.
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Posted by Jennifer907
Posted by ido07
Are you going to the wedding? If so, then I think that whatever you decide to give would be appropriate, whether it is something from the registry or $. I wouldn't send a gift in addition to that if you aren't invited to the shower.
I agree. I wouldn't do 2 gifts.
I agree - if you are'nt invited to the shower and you guys don't really have a relationship I wouldn't give 2 gifts.
diva7531
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No invite to shower, no gift
if you go to the wedding then get her a gift from the registry, a small one!
