Opinion please...

bkbaby4life Posted: Jan 20, 2009 10:40 AM

Re: Opinion please...

Posted by marrymybestfriend

JUST MY OPINION....
please dont jump on me and hate me...

but a tattoo is who a person is. people get tattoos KNOWING that it's perminent and for the rest of their lives. i understand that some people dont like the look of tattoos, or specific tattoos... but if you're asking someone to be in your wedding party... they must mean something to you. and part of them is their tattoos.

if i had a guy friend that had a tattoo on his face like mike tyson... he would be in my wedding party regardless because thats who he is. my friend... with a tattoo on his face

im also extremely partial because i think women with tattoos are EXTREMELY sexy. that tattoo your sister has in that picture it HOTTTTTTTTTTT.

my FW has a tat on her back pretty much the same size. and she isnt covering it on our wedding day. just wearign her hair down so it isnt as focused on

again... just my opinion. too each their own

AGREED. if it was my wedding i wouldn't care about tatoos or piercings or whatever. as long as they wore the dress and looked put together. just my opinion.

DWKSwed Posted: Jan 20, 2009 11:44 AM

Re: Opinion please...

I wouldn't ask... if she went for a tattoo like that then it's obvious she loves it and feels more beautiful with it, and I don't think you should make her feel less comfortable in her own skin when you're already having her put on a dress that you want, shoes you want, etc. and having her do all these things for you. If it was something inappropriate like a naked lady or something with cursing I could understand but otherwise I would just leave it be. Unless you REALLY think she'd be totally cool with it (my sister and I have this kind of relationship, I can be like 'make that hideous tattoo go bye-bye' and she'd tell me to f- off and then she'd airbrush it away) but something tells me if you're concerned about this so much you aren't sure and/or don't have that sort of no-holds-barred relationship with her... or maybe you do, I don't know. Just watch her feelings, she's already doing a lot for you.