Yes- it's probably wierd that I am so involved but I am. Anyway, do you think if we got a limo it's okay for people who are not in the bridal party to put in money for it? What about if they hire a stripper? What are you feelings about the whole money issue? Thanks!
dkga1026
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I think everyone who is going should share the cost.
SeptemberBride03
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If there is room in the limo and you want people other than your bm in it, then yes - I would have them chip in.
For the stripper - it depends. Are they part of the planning or are they just attending what the BMs organize? If they are involved then have them chip in. If not, then its not fair b/c they might not even want to see him.
butterfly91804
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Usually the people who attend pay a part of the cost which is usually divided evenly to be fair.
smooch
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i think if it's a limo, whoever is in it chips in.
if there is a stripper, i think whoever was in on the planning should pay.
i once went to one for a friend's sister, and they got a stripper. i didn't know there would be one. if they had asked me to chip in, i would have been ticked off. (btw, they didn't - whoever 'ordered' him paid for him.)
kdelace
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i agree, whoever goes should help pay for cost. i have been to bacherlorette parties before and i wasnt inthe wedding party and i chipped in my share....
julybride444
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My BMs split the cost, but we kept it low key. I live in the city so we didn't need a limo, and we kept it PG rated.
joeslauren
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i think that everyone who is involved the night of contributes. heck, they are enjoying the limo too right? maybe the BP will take care of the most part when it comes to you..ie - your hotel room (if necessary), your drinks, your admission to any clubs etc...
I think everyone should split...but you should give them a price range first...so they can tell you if they can afford it or not...If a lot of people cannot afford it...then maybe you need to think of something else...or someone else can chip in a little more...
July2004Bride
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I think they should definitely chip in for the limo.. if they are around to enjoy the entertainment (stripper), they should pay for that too.
