my first cousin just booked her wedding the wkend right before mine... I wrote her this long email how inconsiderate and rude that is- I only found this out through her sister..this is after the fact that I had mine booked since April and the entire family knew of the date including her as we spoke about it...I would love to hear everone's thoughts on this? is iit me, or is she just inconsiderate -not just for me but my entire family...now having 2 weddings back to back..besides the fact that the wkend before revolves around my rehersal,bachelortte, etc...unreal!!!!
monters
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my dads brother's daughter...and my dad says he isn't going to her wedding!..
halloweenbride04
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WOW! I'd be PO'ed too. What was her response?
monters
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ready for this- SHE DIDN:T EVEN RESPOND!...so now it only looks worse,as though she KNOWS she is wrong!..any suggestions on what to do?..my theory is just leave it alone now..I said what I had to say and got it off my chest and I feel better...
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I think you hit the nail on the head. MAybe it will sink into her thick skull in a few days
monters
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Thanks Rachel!
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wow! I'd be beyond ****-ed and hurt--like everyone said--WHY that weekend? I know in the grand scheme of things, 'it' could be worse-because I am NOT one to sweat the small stuff-but this is a big deal--its not nice to steal someone's thunder like that--not like it's a couple of months apart -- it's a once in a lifetime day that should be special for you & your FH-not overshadowed by another family wedding the weekend before-
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id be ****ed.... we think fh's cousin is going do somethinng like this...... me and fh both think you should have your batchlorette party that night....
as some girls stated... its not bad having two parties close together, but thats when you talk about it ahead of time, which obviously she didnt do. and to some families its a financial burden to have two weddings to give gifts at within one month.
