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Original post by mattysgurl616

Mich0621 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

I'm all for the randomness you guys know, but I actually thought it was a little lame. Like we were being moderated. If people want to stir sh*t fine. I'm all for the drama as a fun thing to read, its the complaining about it and trying to force it to stop that irks me. If you dont care, if you dont wnt to read, if you dont want to partake, if you want to be 'drama free' thats wonderful! Lovely! just move on and don't reply/read the drama-ish post! Its not like we live in Candyland. Every conversation is going to be super sweet 'ooo your CP is so pretty! Are those peonies???' b/c Jeez, that just be so f*cking boring. You need a little friction, just like you need a little raunch, a little drama, a little debate, or else things just get super sleepy around here. Let someoen tell me my ring is cheap and ugly, I welcome the debate! And if Its a date when I'm not feeling up to debating, I'll just past the post right along. LET THE DRAMA LIVE.



Toucan311 Posted:

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Well, now thats just silly. Those are sheep, not alpacas.

Mich0621 Posted:

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Posted by GinaBambina88


Posted by Mich0621


Posted by hayleyandsteve


Posted by kristi313

are we like the popular girls that people have to gossip about b/c they can't come in our clique??????? is this friggin high school??? why are they stalking our board anyway??? back to your respective boards ladies, don't make me take the llama outta the barn



is that nice?

we're not 'stalking' your boards -- we're here, for the most part, to give advice to you girls! i'm sure that a LOT of the 08 girls know how helpful the previous brides can be. this is a public forum, where people can post on ANY board they'd like!

they newlyweds were just trying to diffuse a tense situation.



Okay, I am all with Hayley and the NW when I say that if someone took two seconds to think about why we would post 6 pages of silliness about alpacas, then one would realize that we were trying to show how we are here not to throw blame, but HELP! Jeez...we were trying to lighten up a tense situation, and some people got all uptight and continued, hence the continued posts.

We are not freaking out about how terrible everyone who went crazy is, we hoped to play a loving big sis sort of role and calm you all down and show everyone how silly this all was!

And, everyone has a right as a member of LIW to post on every board. For example, I am not a NW for another 2 and 1/2 months, but I get a loving and warm reception when I go on every board, NW included. I do, and will continue to post as I chose where I chose. And if someone said something is tacky-take a deep breath and realize that it is an OPINION, which according to the First Amendment of the Constitution, we are all entitled to have. Yeah, I get upset sometimes, but instead of blowing things out of proportion, I choose not to answer. And, you are all entitled not to answer too. And if you do and cause drama, don't complain about the drama! And, our alpaca posts were not intended to cause drama!

If anyone has an opinion, you may politely and kindly respond, and I can promise, my NW girls will not jump down your throats, because they are some of the most helpful, sweet girls I have ever dealt with, and even when we disagree, we do it with respect.

Read into this how you like-all I am saying is CALM DOWN!!! There is no need for personal attacks!




I think you guys are missing the point, we don't have a problem with the alpacas, we had a problem with the comments about us being classless, at least I did, that's mainly what we took offense to on this thread



While I understand that some people feel this way, and I apologize that you were offended, it is another example of how a comment, innocent or not, can get out of hand and be hurtful!

And there are complaints about the alpacas...yes, some thrive on drama, but a lot of girls were being hurt, and we came in to help!

TAU FOREVER!
EverlovingEv Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

Well, now thats just silly. Those are sheep, not alpacas.



Here's an alpaca for you!

Mich0621 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

Well, now thats just silly. Those are sheep, not alpacas.



It is still funny though!
PegaLega Posted:

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Posted by ItalianBride428

IMO

i understand it was done with good thoughts, but perhaps some of the NW should step back and look at themselves...

they are speaking about 08's and their actions and ring posts...criticising what was said meanwhile it is coming off as if they are better then the 08'ers....

and back to yellys post.....


ENOUGH.



If you actually read the thread, which I am assuming you did not-you will see that on the first page...I Personally linked the 07 Bride ring thread that got out of control!

I dont remember anyone saying anyone was classless, if they did then I am sorry for that. But as far as being uppity and us needing to mind our business-just remember that you said that. I remember an 07 bride saying that to an 06 bride....and many of the 06 brides disappeared shortly after.

We came onto your board to have a little fun-try and get rid of the situation at hand b/c Yes people were getting offended and upset. I dont think there is anything wrong with drama-personally I love it and will stick my spoon into it given the chance-but there is a point where everyone starts arguing the same point in different words and its just silly to go on like that.

Again-NW will stay away....have fun!
Mich0621 Posted:

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Posted by PegaLega


Posted by ItalianBride428

IMO

i understand it was done with good thoughts, but perhaps some of the NW should step back and look at themselves...

they are speaking about 08's and their actions and ring posts...criticising what was said meanwhile it is coming off as if they are better then the 08'ers....

and back to yellys post.....


ENOUGH.



If you actually read the thread, which I am assuming you did not-you will see that on the first page...I Personally linked the 07 Bride ring thread that got out of control!

I dont remember anyone saying anyone was classless, if they did then I am sorry for that. But as far as being uppity and us needing to mind our business-just remember that you said that. I remember an 07 bride saying that to an 06 bride....and many of the 06 brides disappeared shortly after.

We came onto your board to have a little fun-try and get rid of the situation at hand b/c Yes people were getting offended and upset. I dont think there is anything wrong with drama-personally I love it and will stick my spoon into it given the chance-but there is a point where everyone starts arguing the same point in different words and its just silly to go on like that.

Again-NW will stay away....have fun!



And I must add-i also apologize if someone was offended, but there is a difference between a little good humor, a little drama, and an all out nasty vile bash-fest. I can only speak for myself, and I feel that it only escalates things when people spew vile hatred on boards.

This is getting so ridiculous already! Sometimes, we all have to be mindful of each other. Two wrongs don't make a right, and vile hatred never brings any good. So, continue posting, have fun, and stop the vile attacks, because they are never cute, never fun, always hurtful, and just because one person says something doesn't mean you should label the group! Jeez!
nifheim Posted:

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To remind people... typically the ones that initiate the drama or instigate typically leave the bored in a month when they get board. So I am looking forward to when that time comes. So for us gals who are normal just ignore IGNORE and soon it will be back to our grand old board again.

Mizzdimple Posted:

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07ers and Newlyweds

please dont stay away.....some girls on here value your advice.

There are some girls on here that tend to represent all of our opinions on here and thats the only problem I have..

The fact that you all said it was unclassy u were probably right..for what was said..but please do not put us all in the same category as we all do not think the same.

Some girls on here have bigger mouths than others....and tend to be heard more...just realize we are not all LLAMAS here.

you are welcome
ItalianBride428 Posted:

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Posted by PegaLega


Posted by ItalianBride428

IMO

i understand it was done with good thoughts, but perhaps some of the NW should step back and look at themselves...

they are speaking about 08's and their actions and ring posts...criticising what was said meanwhile it is coming off as if they are better then the 08'ers....

and back to yellys post.....


ENOUGH.



If you actually read the thread, which I am assuming you did not-you will see that on the first page...I Personally linked the 07 Bride ring thread that got out of control!

I dont remember anyone saying anyone was classless, if they did then I am sorry for that. But as far as being uppity and us needing to mind our business-just remember that you said that. I remember an 07 bride saying that to an 06 bride....and many of the 06 brides disappeared shortly after.

We came onto your board to have a little fun-try and get rid of the situation at hand b/c Yes people were getting offended and upset. I dont think there is anything wrong with drama-personally I love it and will stick my spoon into it given the chance-but there is a point where everyone starts arguing the same point in different words and its just silly to go on like that.

Again-NW will stay away....have fun!



I did read the post and it was specifically mentioned about the 08'ers being unclassy... that they felt sorry for our FH's....I did not feel the need to quote who said it to prevent picking anyone out...but it is there...read your own posts....

and if you read MY post which you quoted I stated 'i understand it was done with good thoughts'....
Mich0621 Posted:

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Posted by Mizzdimple

07ers and Newlyweds

please dont stay away.....some girls on here value your advice.

There are some girls on here that tend to represent all of our opinions on here and thats the only problem I have..

The fact that you all said it was unclassy u were probably right..for what was said..but please do not put us all in the same category as we all do not think the same.

Some girls on here have bigger mouths than others....and tend to be heard more...just realize we are not all LLAMAS here.

you are welcome



We already know! Thank you-you are very kind!
Toucan311 Posted:

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I'd have much more respect for people if they said 'Heather I have a problem with what you said ' or 'Gina' or whoever, b/c these vague comments about 'some people' really get me confused and annoyed! Who in the heck is this referring to!?

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by Mizzdimple

07ers and Newlyweds

please dont stay away.....some girls on here value your advice.

There are some girls on here that tend to represent all of our opinions on here and thats the only problem I have..

The fact that you all said it was unclassy u were probably right..for what was said..but please do not put us all in the same category as we all do not think the same.

Some girls on here have bigger mouths than others....and tend to be heard more...just realize we are not all LLAMAS here.

you are welcome




agreed! im not like that either and don't want anyone to think that of me either!
PegaLega Posted:

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Posted by ItalianBride428


Posted by PegaLega


Posted by ItalianBride428

IMO

i understand it was done with good thoughts, but perhaps some of the NW should step back and look at themselves...

they are speaking about 08's and their actions and ring posts...criticising what was said meanwhile it is coming off as if they are better then the 08'ers....

and back to yellys post.....


ENOUGH.



If you actually read the thread, which I am assuming you did not-you will see that on the first page...I Personally linked the 07 Bride ring thread that got out of control!

I dont remember anyone saying anyone was classless, if they did then I am sorry for that. But as far as being uppity and us needing to mind our business-just remember that you said that. I remember an 07 bride saying that to an 06 bride....and many of the 06 brides disappeared shortly after.

We came onto your board to have a little fun-try and get rid of the situation at hand b/c Yes people were getting offended and upset. I dont think there is anything wrong with drama-personally I love it and will stick my spoon into it given the chance-but there is a point where everyone starts arguing the same point in different words and its just silly to go on like that.

Again-NW will stay away....have fun!



I did read the post and it was specifically mentioned about the 08'ers being unclassy... that they felt sorry for our FH's....I did not feel the need to quote who said it to prevent picking anyone out...but it is there...read your own posts....

and if you read MY post which you quoted I stated 'i understand it was done with good thoughts'....



That thread was started by someone who wasnt even around last night. And the most of the posters on it werent on last night either. They are adding their 2 cents on the topic. The thread that was going on last night is also there...not ONCE did any of the NW on that thread say anything about class. YEs we found the thread ridiculous but that was it
Class is a state of mind...nothing more. Who cares what someone on the other side of a computer thinks about class? I dont give a hoot...im not classy I am classy...who cares.
Sorry-I was talking about a different thread then the one you were talking about. That thread is an added opinion after the fact
Back to my board
ItalianBride428 Posted:

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well, it is what it is...many different women with many different opinions and many responses to things said and thats never going to change! LOL

milana Posted:

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Posted by ItalianBride428

well, it is what it is...many different women with many different opinions and many responses to things said and thats never going to change! LOL



Someone mentioned in an earlier post not to generalize all of the 08 girls as being a certain way, and we didnt and we dont and we never will, because were not all the same....thus please dont generalize all of the NW's either
MyLobster Posted:

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These threads are exactly why I haven't been here for 3 months.

ItalianBride428 Posted:

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Posted by milana


Posted by ItalianBride428

well, it is what it is...many different women with many different opinions and many responses to things said and thats never going to change! LOL



Someone mentioned in an earlier post not to generalize all of the 08 girls as being a certain way, and we didnt and we dont and we never will, because were not all the same....thus please dont generalize all of the NW's either



I didnt, if you read above, I stated 'some'
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by milana


Posted by ItalianBride428

well, it is what it is...many different women with many different opinions and many responses to things said and thats never going to change! LOL



Someone mentioned in an earlier post not to generalize all of the 08 girls as being a certain way, and we didnt and we dont and we never will, because were not all the same....thus please dont generalize all of the NW's either



Thanks for giving some of us the benefit of the dought! i would never generalize your board or any of the other boards as well!
milana Posted:

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Posted by ItalianBride428


Posted by milana


Posted by ItalianBride428

well, it is what it is...many different women with many different opinions and many responses to things said and thats never going to change! LOL



Someone mentioned in an earlier post not to generalize all of the 08 girls as being a certain way, and we didnt and we dont and we never will, because were not all the same....thus please dont generalize all of the NW's either



I didnt, if you read above, I stated 'some'



i dont see the word 'some' in your post or the post above. I see 'many'. Dont generalize the NW's we wont generalize you either its very simple.

Mutual regard and respect goes a long way

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