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GinaBambina08 Posted:

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Posted by ItalianBride428


Posted by kristi313

this is really all getting out of control it's giving me a headache. when i said something about other girls 'stalking' our board, i should've put it differently. if what is being posted on this board is so disturbing to those of you on other boards, don't reply. that's basically how it should go for girls on this board as well, if you don't like the post, SKIP IT go to the next thread.

the comment that was made about our marriages not working b/c of the drama was rude and uncalled for, how can you not expect people to come back at that.

seriously we're all adults, planning weddings let's talk about CP's or favors lol



or how about the one where they felt sorry for our FH's....that was classy.



Ignorant comments like that is what really ticks me off, where do they get off making comments and assumptions about our personal lives, like they KNOW us?? That is not only 'not classy', it is IGNORANT
Lisa982006 Posted:

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Posted by GinaBambina88


Posted by Lisa982006


Posted by GinaBambina88

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Posted by GinaBambina88

Uh-oh....I smell a 'board war'...



they called your thread classless!!!!!!!!! are you kidding??? i am livid for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EVEN IF YOU THINK SOMEONE IS CLASSLESS, YOU NEVER SAY THAT IN A PUBLIC FORUM!!!! THAT IS WHEN YOU HAVE NO CLASS.



at this point, I don't even care....i've come across many catty......'people' in my lifetime, a few more won't kill me



For someone whos on 'LIW Vacation' you sure have alot of say...



I took an early flight back and this isss my board last time I checked


Well 'your' board is making headlines on 'my' board and everyones elses board so I think that gives me a free pass to post wherever I want but thanks for bringing that to my attention
GinaBambina08 Posted:

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Posted by Lisa982006


Posted by GinaBambina88


Posted by Lisa982006


Posted by GinaBambina88

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Posted by GinaBambina88

Uh-oh....I smell a 'board war'...



they called your thread classless!!!!!!!!! are you kidding??? i am livid for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EVEN IF YOU THINK SOMEONE IS CLASSLESS, YOU NEVER SAY THAT IN A PUBLIC FORUM!!!! THAT IS WHEN YOU HAVE NO CLASS.



at this point, I don't even care....i've come across many catty......'people' in my lifetime, a few more won't kill me



For someone whos on 'LIW Vacation' you sure have alot of say...



I took an early flight back and this isss my board last time I checked



Well 'your' board is making headlines on 'my' board and everyones elses board so I think that gives me a free pass to post wherever I want but thanks for bringing that to my attention



Your very welcome
DNicholes Posted:

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are we going to have to post alpacas and llamas again????

We did that last night to break some tension and at least have you guys get a laugh out of it....not a SINGLE one of us from last night called you classless....todays post is different & as part of being on a public forum ladies are able to say whatever they'd like....whether right or wrong...nice or mean.....




Jesaroo2 Posted:

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Posted by DNicholes

are we going to have to post alpacas and llamas again????

We did that last night to break some tension and at least have you guys get a laugh out of it....not a SINGLE one of us from last night called you classless....todays post is different & as part of being on a public forum ladies are able to say whatever they'd like....whether right or wrong...nice or mean.....







I think u guys totally need to start posting alpacas again..I wasn't posting to thats post last night but I did read it and laugh my *** off at the alpaca sex...

I wanna know where u guys went and saw them!
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by DNicholes

are we going to have to post alpacas and llamas again????

We did that last night to break some tension and at least have you guys get a laugh out of it....not a SINGLE one of us from last night called you classless....todays post is different & as part of being on a public forum ladies are able to say whatever they'd like....whether right or wrong...nice or mean.....







please!! i almost fell off of my chair reading it last night! hysterical!!
DiamondPipa Posted:

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look at what they are saying now:

http://www.liweddings.com/chat/topic-441137-1.html
GinaBambina08 Posted:

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Posted by DNicholes

are we going to have to post alpacas and llamas again????

We did that last night to break some tension and at least have you guys get a laugh out of it....not a SINGLE one of us from last night called you classless....todays post is different & as part of being on a public forum ladies are able to say whatever they'd like....whether right or wrong...nice or mean.....







Yeah, we know you girls meant well last night....however, today is a completely different story, obviously with the comments about us being classless and feeling sorry for our FHs but I don't think those were the same ones that tried to help out yesterday...anyway, like you said this is a public forum so we decided to talk about those ignorant comments...
Toucan311 Posted:

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I'm all for the randomness you guys know, but I actually thought it was a little lame. Like we were being moderated. If people want to stir sh*t fine. I'm all for the drama as a fun thing to read, its the complaining about it and trying to force it to stop that irks me. If you dont care, if you dont wnt to read, if you dont want to partake, if you want to be 'drama free' thats wonderful! Lovely! just move on and don't reply/read the drama-ish post! Its not like we live in Candyland. Every conversation is going to be super sweet 'ooo your CP is so pretty! Are those peonies???' b/c Jeez, that just be so f*cking boring. You need a little friction, just like you need a little raunch, a little drama, a little debate, or else things just get super sleepy around here. Let someoen tell me my ring is cheap and ugly, I welcome the debate! And if Its a date when I'm not feeling up to debating, I'll just past the post right along. LET THE DRAMA LIVE.

GinaBambina08 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

I'm all for the randomness you guys know, but I actually thought it was a little lame. Like we were being moderated. If people want to stir sh*t fine. I'm all for the drama as a fun thing to read, its the complaining about it and trying to force it to stop that irks me. If you dont care, if you dont wnt to read, if you dont want to partake, if you want to be 'drama free' thats wonderful! Lovely! just move on and don't reply/read the drama-ish post! Its not like we live in Candyland. Every conversation is going to be super sweet 'ooo your CP is so pretty! Are those peonies???' b/c Jeez, that just be so f*cking boring. You need a little friction, just like you need a little raunch, a little drama, a little debate, or else things just get super sleepy around here. Let someoen tell me my ring is cheap and ugly, I welcome the debate! And if Its a date when I'm not feeling up to debating, I'll just past the post right along. LET THE DRAMA LIVE.



I agree 100%
milana Posted:

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Im not sure who called you girls classless, but if someone is upset about that then why dont they personally FM any NW that called them classless and they can take it upon themselevs to work it out. Cause im not sure whose calling who classless..........until then for all of our viewing entertainment



Mich0621 Posted:

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Posted by hayleyandsteve


Posted by kristi313

are we like the popular girls that people have to gossip about b/c they can't come in our clique??????? is this friggin high school??? why are they stalking our board anyway??? back to your respective boards ladies, don't make me take the llama outta the barn



is that nice?

we're not 'stalking' your boards -- we're here, for the most part, to give advice to you girls! i'm sure that a LOT of the 08 girls know how helpful the previous brides can be. this is a public forum, where people can post on ANY board they'd like!

they newlyweds were just trying to diffuse a tense situation.



Okay, I am all with Hayley and the NW when I say that if someone took two seconds to think about why we would post 6 pages of silliness about alpacas, then one would realize that we were trying to show how we are here not to throw blame, but HELP! Jeez...we were trying to lighten up a tense situation, and some people got all uptight and continued, hence the continued posts.

We are not freaking out about how terrible everyone who went crazy is, we hoped to play a loving big sis sort of role and calm you all down and show everyone how silly this all was!

And, everyone has a right as a member of LIW to post on every board. For example, I am not a NW for another 2 and 1/2 months, but I get a loving and warm reception when I go on every board, NW included. I do, and will continue to post as I chose where I chose. And if someone said something is tacky-take a deep breath and realize that it is an OPINION, which according to the First Amendment of the Constitution, we are all entitled to have. Yeah, I get upset sometimes, but instead of blowing things out of proportion, I choose not to answer. And, you are all entitled not to answer too. And if you do and cause drama, don't complain about the drama! And, our alpaca posts were not intended to cause drama!

If anyone has an opinion, you may politely and kindly respond, and I can promise, my NW girls will not jump down your throats, because they are some of the most helpful, sweet girls I have ever dealt with, and even when we disagree, we do it with respect.

Read into this how you like-all I am saying is CALM DOWN!!! There is no need for personal attacks!

BunnyBride Posted:

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Posted by milana

Im not sure who called you girls classless, but if someone is upset about that then why dont they personally FM any NW that called them classless and they can take it upon themselevs to work it out. Cause im not sure whose calling who classless..........until then for all of our viewing entertainment






OMG! The one with the kid is PRICELESS!!! More Alpaca's in this shiz!!

ItalianBride428 Posted:

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IMO

i understand it was done with good thoughts, but perhaps some of the NW should step back and look at themselves...

they are speaking about 08's and their actions and ring posts...criticising what was said meanwhile it is coming off as if they are better then the 08'ers....

and back to yellys post.....


ENOUGH.
GinaBambina08 Posted:

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Posted by Mich0621


Posted by hayleyandsteve


Posted by kristi313

are we like the popular girls that people have to gossip about b/c they can't come in our clique??????? is this friggin high school??? why are they stalking our board anyway??? back to your respective boards ladies, don't make me take the llama outta the barn



is that nice?

we're not 'stalking' your boards -- we're here, for the most part, to give advice to you girls! i'm sure that a LOT of the 08 girls know how helpful the previous brides can be. this is a public forum, where people can post on ANY board they'd like!

they newlyweds were just trying to diffuse a tense situation.



Okay, I am all with Hayley and the NW when I say that if someone took two seconds to think about why we would post 6 pages of silliness about alpacas, then one would realize that we were trying to show how we are here not to throw blame, but HELP! Jeez...we were trying to lighten up a tense situation, and some people got all uptight and continued, hence the continued posts.

We are not freaking out about how terrible everyone who went crazy is, we hoped to play a loving big sis sort of role and calm you all down and show everyone how silly this all was!

And, everyone has a right as a member of LIW to post on every board. For example, I am not a NW for another 2 and 1/2 months, but I get a loving and warm reception when I go on every board, NW included. I do, and will continue to post as I chose where I chose. And if someone said something is tacky-take a deep breath and realize that it is an OPINION, which according to the First Amendment of the Constitution, we are all entitled to have. Yeah, I get upset sometimes, but instead of blowing things out of proportion, I choose not to answer. And, you are all entitled not to answer too. And if you do and cause drama, don't complain about the drama! And, our alpaca posts were not intended to cause drama!

If anyone has an opinion, you may politely and kindly respond, and I can promise, my NW girls will not jump down your throats, because they are some of the most helpful, sweet girls I have ever dealt with, and even when we disagree, we do it with respect.

Read into this how you like-all I am saying is CALM DOWN!!! There is no need for personal attacks!




I think you guys are missing the point, we don't have a problem with the alpacas, we had a problem with the comments about us being classless, at least I did, that's mainly what we took offense to on this thread
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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ya girls lets just stop..the 07'ers are an important resource to us as they have had there weddings already and can give us advice..its not worth it to fight about stupid things...for those who haven't already..read hayley's post!

GinaBambina08 Posted:

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And I think it would be just as effective to post the same thing on the NW thread, because to be brutally honest, some of them were the ones that STARTED with the personal attacks, not us! Some of them then proceeded to come on the 08 boards to perpetuate the drama even further....

just for the record, I really appreciate the advice that most of you NW's give and I still love you guys but some of the comments that some of you made caused us to become defensive which is only natural!
Toucan311 Posted:

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I still think that a dodge ball game is the only way to really settle this thing. That or jello wrestling.

hayleyandsteve Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

I still think that a dodge ball game is the only way to really settle this thing. That or jello wrestling.



mmm. jello -- now i'm hungry!
Mich0621 Posted:

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Posted by BunnyBride


Posted by milana

Im not sure who called you girls classless, but if someone is upset about that then why dont they personally FM any NW that called them classless and they can take it upon themselevs to work it out. Cause im not sure whose calling who classless..........until then for all of our viewing entertainment






OMG! The one with the kid is PRICELESS!!! More Alpaca's in this shiz!!




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