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Our Suggested Church Donation...is this right?

Original post by ChrissynRicky

Just wanted to know if we were paying the average 'suggested' donation to the church....

$300???
SweetCin704 Posted:

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Ours just got raised to 450 including organist/singer though & precana

(in Queens I had paid 700. 10 years ago!!!)
vinnysgrl Posted:

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mine is $800 ....i cant believe that !!!!!!!!!!1 i wonder if i can talk the priest down

patticakes Posted:

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You're lucky, ours is $700!! I just paid it in advance, it aggravated me too much to have that hanging over my head
SOON TO BE MRS. B Posted:

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I think that is right, ours is more.

Tina120206 Posted:

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825
pupidda122505 Posted:

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You're lucky actually - ours is more. suggested donation for my Church is $500!
DandS Posted:

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Posted by debsey75

I havent even asked yet. I can only imagine.



Me too. I thought it was around $900, but I hope that I am wrong. For some reason I remember my brother's 'donation' being that much, and we are getting married in the same Church.
BklynItaliana Posted:

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mine is 1K but that covers the 1 organist also

M&S Sept12006 Posted:

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I would definitely go with $500...its just a safe number

ETA: Most churches state their 'suggested donation'...if yours didnt, then use your discretion Chris...but your church is absolutely BEAUTIFUL, therefore, I would go with $500, just so that they maintain the upkeep...
chellynyc Posted:

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Mine is $500 and that's including the singer and the organist. Non parishioners are $750.

Katie&Chris2006 Posted:

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Ours is $450.
jeanla4c Posted:

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Yep! Mine was higher.

tonimike Posted:

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out 'deposit' / donation is $500 w/ out all the music,,, nice huh !! BTW this is what the church told us it would cost ,,

bingbabe04 Posted:

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Just went to our wedding workshop last night. Ours is 600, but it's a newer church, so i guess more upkeep?

spring06bride Posted:

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i must have lucked out! mine was 250 for Rehearsal and ceremony! eek!

ChrissynRicky Posted:

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

I would definitely go with $500...its just a safe number

ETA: Most churches state their 'suggested donation'...if yours didnt, then use your discretion Chris...but your church is absolutely BEAUTIFUL, therefore, I would go with $500, just so that they maintain the upkeep...



Aww...thanks booba. I spoke to the priest last night, he confirmed the following:

donation to the church $300
donation to the priest (tip) $whatever we want - probably give $150
organist $100
Love4Eva Posted:

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$500 for me

SeptBride70 Posted:

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600 or 700 for us

don't even get me started!!!!

ETA: i have to say FH made me laugh b/c we were walking out of the church after he TOLD us what our 'donation' would be and that there was no difference between parishioners and non-parishioners (i have been one all my life). so we were leaving and i said to FH, 600 or 700??!! i mean, that sounds like an awfully big donation-- FH goes, donation my A$$, did you see that gold watch on the priest's wrist?? that was cartier!! that's our DONATION!!
MrsFelix Posted:

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Ours is $500.

From what we were told the 'donation' is supposed to pay for their help and time during preparation (i.e. initial interview, phone calls, etcl), lights, AC or heat (if applicable) and other church expenses during your time there, that includes the rehearsal. Just thought I'd share since we asked our Deacon!!!
Meaghan729 Posted:

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ours is $700

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