Pairing the Bridal Party

Soon2bMrsH Posted: Jan 21, 2010 04:02 PM

Pairing the Bridal Party

i think im about to complicate things...

i may be bumping my sister in law up to be a 2nd maid of honor. FH has 2 best men as well.
my brother (married to SIL) is also in the bridal party.
so usually the MOH and best man are paired together. which would be my sister and his brother, then my SIL, and his other brother.

but shouldnt my SIL be paired to MY brother if they are married?

how does this work?

Any one have a similar situation?

Any thoughts, advice is welcome!

thanks!

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Jan 21, 2010 04:05 PM

Re: Pairing the Bridal Party

we had couples separated for that reason....our best man was married to a bridesmaid (not a MOH) and they walked with other people...it was totally fine!

FutureJOC Posted: Jan 21, 2010 04:11 PM

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I don't think it's necessary at alol to have the couple paired together. It perfectly fine for them to walk down with other people.

julesrbf Posted: Jan 21, 2010 04:20 PM

Re: Pairing the Bridal Party

Agree with the above.

pipermaru Posted: Jan 21, 2010 05:17 PM

Re: Pairing the Bridal Party

i don't have a similar situation but we're pairing our 2 mohs and best men... then everyone else is paired based on ranking of friendship to us

MongieToBe Posted: Jan 21, 2010 07:32 PM

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I'm pairing BMs to GMs by height...I have some really tiny and really tall girls & FH has some short & tall guys

ETA: I think it's fine if they walk separately. I wouldn't bump her up to MOH just b/c FBIL is best man