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pairing up bridesmaid/groomsmen

soon2b Posted:

pairing up bridesmaid/groomsmen

what is the rule when pairing up bridesmaid/groomsmen

does age make a difference? does it matter if they are related ex...bridesmaid cousin to groomsmen?
twinkle164 Posted:

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There is no hard and fast rule. Generally I think it is done by height.

Mici n KC Posted:

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We haven't figured it out yet other than who the MOH and BM are and they are obviously going together. FH's cousin and her fiance are in the BP so they will be together. We'll figure everything out after our engagement party, but most likely it will be done by height.

Ann 52409 Posted:

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I have always seen it done by height once the ladies have there shoes on...

kellybean Posted:

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Im keeping couples together ...and the BM and the MOH together ...then by height .....

040508Bride Posted:

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I am doing it by rank hahaha

MOH alone (she's married, and BM is at alter)

BM (best friend) with GM (my brother)
BM (sister in law) with GM (my cousin)
BMgmBM (2 girls to one gm)
JBM
JBM
JBM

RB
FG


I have a feeling this is only making sense in my own head...lol HTH anyway
kabo0831 Posted:

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it doesnt matter about age becuz im pair a 19yo with my bro who is 29. 10 years difference

LitBallerinaGirl Posted:

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We did BM and GM in height order and then MOH with Best Man.

melissankurt07 Posted:

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Posted by 040508Bride

I am doing it by rank hahaha

MOH alone (she's married, and BM is at alter)

BM (best friend) with GM (my brother)
BM (sister in law) with GM (my cousin)
BMgmBM (2 girls to one gm)
JBM
JBM
JBM

RB
FG


I have a feeling this is only making sense in my own head...lol HTH anyway



Nope- I understood it too!!! That is exactly what I am doing also. My sister is my MOH and then my other sister is a BM and she will be next and then so on and so on. In order of importance in my life (not to sound rude but I hope everyone knows what I mean.)
poisonivy918 Posted:

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Posted by 040508Bride

I am doing it by rank hahaha

MOH alone (she's married, and BM is at alter)

BM (best friend) with GM (my brother)
BM (sister in law) with GM (my cousin)
BMgmBM (2 girls to one gm)
JBM
JBM
JBM

RB
FG


I have a feeling this is only making sense in my own head...lol HTH anyway



that's what i'm doing too!
kates Posted:

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We did it according to who they thought would get along the best with the other.

drpepper318 Posted:

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There is one bf/gf couple we're keeping together, other than that we are doing it based on who we think would look good together (including height).

rsolano222 Posted:

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Posted by drpepper318

There is one bf/gf couple we're keeping together, other than that we are doing it based on who we think would look good together (including height).



Thats the same thing we're doing
jtgarsik Posted:

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i put the given couples together first (bf&gf or h&w) and then went from there (basically by height & who looks good together)....i put some cousins together & such....it's really however u want!

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