PANIC ATTACK

OrangeGrl Posted: Jan 27, 2007 07:04 AM

PANIC ATTACK

Last night I had my first Wedding Panic attack. I was in the car with FH and all of a sudden it hit me:

How will I look in my dress?
Everyone will be staring at me
Will we be able to dance?
WIll everyone have a good time?
Will everyone we want to be there, be there?
Will our pictures come out nice?

and blah blah blah like that! I am talking freaking out, kinda screamy, crying with sobs included! Fh calmed me down and told me I was beautiful and all that crap but has anyone else had a freak out attack like this? The Wedding is still 9 months away!

ETAB Posted: Jan 27, 2007 08:03 AM

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awe I am sorry. I tis completely normal to feel that way sometimes.... it is a lot of pressure! BUT, now that you are extermely prepared and everything will turn out awesine!!!!! just breath ant think that you will be marriying FH and everything else will fall into place.

Lools Posted: Jan 27, 2007 09:07 AM

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I freak out in my dreams... lucky for FH! I have had LOTS of wedding nightmares... including ones where I've shown up in jeans and a t-shirt, the power goes out in my hall, my FH and his party change out of their tuxes into crappy clothes before any pictures are taken and I end up yelling at him and smacking him across the face! In another dream the waistaff doesn't show and my friends have to be put to work.... it goes on and on........

ziamaria Posted: Jan 27, 2007 09:09 AM

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the panic attacks go away closer to the wedding, once things fall into place, itll be ok. ur lucky to have a great fh who is sympathetic!!!

Marchbride07 Posted: Jan 27, 2007 09:22 AM

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Posted by Lools

I freak out in my dreams... lucky for FH! I have had LOTS of wedding nightmares... including ones where I've shown up in jeans and a t-shirt, the power goes out in my hall, my FH and his party change out of their tuxes into crappy clothes before any pictures are taken and I end up yelling at him and smacking him across the face! In another dream the waistaff doesn't show and my friends have to be put to work.... it goes on and on........

Ditto...I panic in my dreams..>I forgot to get a veil or shoes...FH doesn;t show up because he is watching a sporting event...BLAH BLAH BLAH.

I am sorry that that happened! It will get better! Wedding planning is not as easy and fun as everyone makes it out to be. I second that it will get easier as you get closer and you can focus onthe little details that make the wedding day about you!

Feel better!

werock0709 Posted: Jan 27, 2007 10:00 AM

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I actually did last night. But to make it worse, I have an anxiety disorder, so I had pop a happy pill. It started because our petal cones came, and I was looking at all of our stuff, and said to myself..OMG I'm getting maried in 3 months . Darren reassured me, and I had to lay down, with tears streaming down my face. That seems to calm me down. Lord knows what I'll be like the day of. Thank goodness for DOC's.

billandme Posted: Jan 27, 2007 10:10 AM

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Yah, I worry about those things as well.........I think it's normal You're so lucky to have such a wonderful FH and that he supported you like that!

It will be fine......of course you'll feel stressed here and there, but in the end, it will ALL fall into place for you and instead of crying, you'll be smiling from EAR to EAR!!!!