I told him I would call off the wedding if this continues...that woke him up, but now he is sick...Seriously, last weekend I told him I would not marry him if this is what I had to look forward to...I Love him tons, but....c'mon...
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I will admit that my problem is that I have become so stressed that I am more aware of the fact that we are doing it in his parents house and they are downstairs. They are very cool and want us to do it (they think young engaged couples SHOULD be having sex).
I am just more self-conscious because I am stressed. There have been a few occasions when we were alone when things were good. We just need our privacy.
Valentinegirl
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Add me too!
PrincessRose
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Oh Thank The Lord!
You girls TOO????!!!!!!!
I thought it was all me!
My Gyno said it was the pill's fault, but now I know that it's really the energy off this darned diamond! LOL!
ETA: Razz - Thanks for starting this post!
Jan05Bride
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I'd much rather cuddle We have cycles - some weeks a lot, some weeks nada ... hopefully once we are married and actually live together it might improve (that's what he is hoping for at least )
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Posted by xjulietx
I will admit that my problem is that I have become so stressed that I am more aware of the fact that we are doing it in his parents house and they are downstairs. They are very cool and want us to do it (they think young engaged couples SHOULD be having sex).
I am just more self-conscious because I am stressed. There have been a few occasions when we were alone when things were good. We just need our privacy.
That is a big part of it for me too...the thought of my sister being down the hall is starting to bother me more now than it ever did! She never used to be home a lot but now she is here all the time & I don't like the idea of me & FH getting down while she is like 8 feet away! I told him it will be better when we move in together but we have a looooooooooooooong way to go for that!
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My fiance works niights and I work days so we never see each other - when we do we are just too damn tired for sex!
cocoa
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oh yeah, and when it comes back, aunt flo decides to visit!
MrsJ
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You mean I'm not in this alone!
HAHA You said it sister!!
sag530
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LMAO!!! I thought it was just me!!!!
sun86moon
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Same here, also a newlywed! Just wanted you ladies to know that there were 69 posts before I replied!
MissMelissa
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My fiance would pay u if u found mine
Bebalina
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oh my gosh ....i thought it was just me......lol and when we do....i'm saying ouch.....like a virgin!!!
FeliciaDA
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You ladies do not know how much better i feel after reading this thread. I SERIOUSLY thought something was wrong with us and would spend some nights getting really worried! Before the engagement we coulnd't get enough .. now we go a week here and there without..
I remember noticing a slight drop off when we first started living together, then it picked up again when we 'adjusted' to the situation.. but after the engagement we are REALLY lax .... Being tired all the time and sleep deprivation overall is the main excuse .. but STILL
We already joke that we probably will be too tired to consummate the marriage on our wedding night!
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We already joke that we probably will be too tired to consummate the marriage on our wedding night!
FH says the same thing!
I really needed this post....It's nice to know that we're not the only ones. With working FT and both of us in school who has time for it.
MrsJ
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oh my gosh ....i thought it was just me......lol and when we do....i'm saying ouch.....like a virgin!!!
I KNOW! ME too! Whats up with that?!
MrsJ
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Posted by LIJuneBride
It's an epidemic - get a ring, lose your libido!!!
CRACKING UP!!!!!!!!
I guess there are a bunch of frustrated men running around Long Island!