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Pastor/Church Question

kbond06 Posted:

Pastor/Church Question

I'm getting married at the church I belong to (although have been bad and haven't shown my face much since confirmation!)...but I used to babysit for the woman in charge of booking the weddings. I've been in contact with her since last summer, but she said as it gets closer we will meet with the Pastor(Who is fairly new to the church) to have our meeting and talk about rehersal and ceremony times.

Fast forwarding to end of jan/feb: I called and she said he would be calling me. I missed the call while at work- he left the church's phone # and his HOME number

I've called the church number 3x and no call back! Should I call his HOUSE?!?! I feel so out of place doing that....anyone ever call their house????
gina409 Posted:

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i had a bit trouble getting in touch with my priest too..he was always out..then finally i got his email and it was so much easier..maybe he has one too?

9509Bride Posted:

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if he left his house number I would use it. It is not like you tracked it down on your own and are stalking him. lol

I would just say something like, so sorry to bother you at home but I attempted to reach you at the church and am unsure if you got the messages .....


If he didnt want to be bothered at home he wouldn't have given you the number IMO

LeeAnne Posted:

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i would just call. if he left the number then its obviously okay to call him
super awkward i agree but you will feel better once you check it off the list!
bluekat16 Posted:

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Are you getting married at the Community Church of East Williston?

If he left his home number along with the church I would call both places.
kbond06 Posted:

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yes I am!

alright, maybe I'll call in a little while, I'm such a chicken, will be completely awkward and probably stumble all over my words

-I even tried calling the church yesterday b/c I knew he would obviously be there lol

I'm just getting concerned b/c of rehersal dinner booking--procrastinatiiioonnnnn
bluekat16 Posted:

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Posted by kbond06

yes I am!

alright, maybe I'll call in a little while, I'm such a chicken, will be completely awkward and probably stumble all over my words

-I even tried calling the church yesterday b/c I knew he would obviously be there lol

I'm just getting concerned b/c of rehersal dinner booking--procrastinatiiioonnnnn



FM me if you want info. on the pastor there. Charlene is a doll...you won't have anything to worry about the day of your wedding..she runs a tight ship
mokie74m Posted:

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Don't feel bad, he gave you his number so its okay to call him at home. The Deacon that is marrying us gave us his cell number and we use it when we need to talk to him.

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