people already inviting themselves UGH!

So Yesterday I find out from FMIL that FH's cousins baby mama decides she has never been to a big wedding and wants to come to ours so tells FH's cousins mother and she says 'so go ahead and buy a dress and come' Ummmm Excuse the F*** out of me but who said she was invited. FH's cousins mother has done this twice (inviting people who aren't invited) she did it at my shower with her other son's gf and now with this son's baby mama.

I don't want this girl at my wedding, she is the epitome of TRASH. I have met her like 3 times and she barely says hello to me and FH when she sees us. I don't even know if his cousin is even in a relationship with her or just hanging around her for the kids sake.

I am so pissed off bc this chic has 4 kids and it wouldn't stop her from showing up with all of them. I'm paying $165 per person I can't afford to invite this chic plus I don't even want her there!!!

My invites are going in the mail today and the envelope for FH's cousin has already been calligraphed for just him, I pray that he doesn't RSVP for 2. I will be flipping out.

Re: people already inviting themselves UGH!

We already has 1 person invite themselves after the invites went out. We are figuring if it's only one and keeps the peace then it's ok. If you feel really strongly about it I would say something if not just let her come just to keep the peace but make sure she knows her kids are not invited.

Re: people already inviting themselves UGH!

sorry you're dealing with this! My DH's friend invited his mother-in-law to our wedding!

Re: people already inviting themselves UGH!

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Posted by pa56

sorry you're dealing with this! My DH's friend invited his mother-in-law to our wedding!

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Ugh I just don't get how people invite other people to weddings. I mean do they know how expensive they are?

If she shows up then everyone else who was invited without a guest is going to wonder why they weren't allowed to