people are really rude...

people are really rude...

so its 2 days after our RSVP date... and i am missing like 1/2 of my RSVP's still. the wedding is less than 6 weeks away.. i gave everyone plenty of time to respond by january 12th.. and only 1/2 of them have done so. i am like 1/2 way to my minimum... i am really hurt right now.. a big chunk of the people who did not respond are my own aunts and uncles!!! its ridiculous... i know a few of them are going through crap as far as not speaking to or being very friendly with other siblings and my parents and stuff.. and i swear if theyre doing this to me because of that i will never speak to them again...... well anyway, im not feeling really well, i have heartburn from all this stress and being so close to the date... and fh is telling me im a bridezilla.... he has no clue.... alright im gonna go.. thanks for reading if you did.

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I am so sorry sweetie, its unfortunate that so many people are inconsiderate...how hard is it to say yes or no. Some people also plan on going but just expect you to know this and that they don't have to RSVP...ALOT of brides do end up having to call guests to get an answer from them.

Don't let this bring you down, hope it all works out

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Aw I'm sorry! That's so annoying. Maybe your aunts and uncles are assuming that you just 'know' they are coming. This happened to me at my engagement party. When I called close friends and family they were like, 'Of course we are coming!'

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You should follow-up with them. I had this happen to me twice. I sent the RSVP right after I received the invites and they were lost in the mail. I think some of them may have gotten lost in the mail. I do not know if that is helpful or not.

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I'm sorry I'm sure they don't mean to upset you...I've unfortunately missed an RSVP date or 2 in the past

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awww hunny i am so sorry............id get on the phone this week and call them all ! thats what i will be doing when my time rolld around!!
Good luck!

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aww thanks so much girls, i appreciate all your replies a lot... im going to have a few people in my family make the phone calls for me this weekend or something so i dont slip up and say something mean to the non-rsvp'ers.. lol.

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Ugh!!! sorry you are fustrated, however I would ask other family members (like your mom/dad etc.) to call them?

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you're not being a bridezilla. People have an obligation to check off a little box and send a postage-paid envelope through the mail. Not too difficult. I can't wait for this part of my wedding planning.

Split up the non-responders between you and FH, your parents too if they have the time. Call everyone by the end of this weekend. Everyone calls who they're closest too (FH will call his great-aunt; you will call your college roommate, etc., so you're speaking to people you know). It will get done. You'll be fine!

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that really sux hun! Give it another 2 days!

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Lots of hugs. I'm sorry.

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I'm sorry you are going through this. My sister had to call almost half of her guests to see if they were coming and 90% of them said yes. But your right, is it to much to as to RSVP by the desired date. Your not a Bridezilla - we all have our moments and our fiance's will neverunderstand.

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Youre not being a bridezilla. This really irked me and still bothers me til this day. You need to start picking up the phone and calling these people. And if they say, 'You know where coming' Let them know you dont know and thats what RSVPs are for. Good luck and start putting your foot down. Finalizing your number is important.