I know its so soon after my wedding but I have to get this off my chest. One of DH's friends said he overheard a cousins boyfriend talking about all the things he would have done different AT THE WEDDING. What the hell is that?? I just dont get people. Is it jealousy?? Ive just never felt the need to talk down about what other people are doing. Maybe DH and I are just confident people but this has been bothering me that someone I invited to my wedding was sitting there judging it. I guess thats life right. If he wants to do things so differently, maybe he should ask the mother of his children to marry him already. Im just sayin....
snwb08
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people ALWAYS have something to say.
they always will, unfortunately. don't let it bug you - all that matters is YOU loved your wedding.
cherish83
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The nerve of people. As long as you are happy with the way everything looked and went, thats all that matters.
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some people just do nto have a life. They are upset with their own life and they need to make everyone else feel like crap...
I had some one due that to my engagment party...but guess what they are no longer invited to my wedding...
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EH DONT even pay attention...Theres always somebody at ANY wedding that talks like that.
You had a beautiful wedding and it was all you wanted which is the only thing that matters
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So sorry to hear this! Very rude.
SparkyandAng
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the part of the mother of his children is funny.
It is sad that people can't just respect others tastes. He was a guest at your beautiful wedding, he should be happy he was invited and got to share in your special day.
I hate when people judge something someone else has b/c it was too expensive, or too cheap or they didn't like the color or whatever. Most times it is jealousy! Sad sad sad.
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Unfortunately there will always be people that are cynical and critical. Its rude that he would sit there and comment so openly about your wedding! You wonder why they just can't enjoy themselves and the love that you and your DH are sharing that day. I chalk it up to them just being really bitter people.
Don't let it bother you. As long as you and your DH had an amazing time thats all that matters in the end!
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just another example of why I don't like most people ! so rude !
opinions are like a-holes, everyone has one and boy did he act like one
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just another example of why I don't like most people ! so rude !
opinions are like a-holes, everyone has one and boy did he act like one
This incident made me even more of a misanthrope (I love that word )
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EH DONT even pay attention...Theres always somebody at ANY wedding that talks like that.
You had a beautiful wedding and it was all you wanted which is the only thing that matters
exactly....he has no place...dont even give it a thought! As long as it was the wedding of your dreams THATS what matters!
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i think that as long as you are happy with the way things turned...who cares what other people have to say
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i KNOW people will talk about my wedding behind my back cuz thats just how some family members are but i wont pay any mind.
just ignore it. their jealous.
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Don't let it bother you too much, people like to talk, he probably wasn't intending to put your wedding down, but people have different tastes, and people like to talk Waaaay too much!
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just another example of why I don't like most people ! so rude !
opinions are like a-holes, everyone has one and boy did he act like one
This incident made me even more of a misanthrope (I love that word )[/QUOTE
Yes people tend to have that effect on me as well, the older I get, the more I think most people s**k ! don't let some guy who doesn't mean much to u get you upset, he isn't worth your energy
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people just love to talk **** ... especially the unhappy ones. Brush your shoulder off , your wedding looked amazing :)
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Posted by Songstress
I know its so soon after my wedding but I have to get this off my chest. One of DH's friends said he overheard a cousins boyfriend talking about all the things he would have done different AT THE WEDDING. What the hell is that?? I just dont get people. Is it jealousy?? Ive just never felt the need to talk down about what other people are doing. Maybe DH and I are just confident people but this has been bothering me that someone I invited to my wedding was sitting there judging it. I guess thats life right. If he wants to do things so differently, maybe he should ask the mother of his children to marry him already. Im just sayin....
it is inevitable! What is more sad is that someone told you. Whomever told you should be whipped and shackled!
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that is so annoying how judgemental people can be - people truly forget the important meaning of the celebration - sounds like he was envious of you & your DH hence the reason why he didnt tie the knot with his woman yet
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Posted by MrsK2008
Posted by Songstress
I know its so soon after my wedding but I have to get this off my chest. One of DH's friends said he overheard a cousins boyfriend talking about all the things he would have done different AT THE WEDDING. What the hell is that?? I just dont get people. Is it jealousy?? Ive just never felt the need to talk down about what other people are doing. Maybe DH and I are just confident people but this has been bothering me that someone I invited to my wedding was sitting there judging it. I guess thats life right. If he wants to do things so differently, maybe he should ask the mother of his children to marry him already. Im just sayin....
it is inevitable! What is more sad is that someone told you. Whomever told you should be whipped and shackled!
I know. Thats another thing. I wish people wouldnt tell me things like that. I would have probably kept that to myself.
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Don't even worry about!! People are just ridiculous!! As long as you loved everything who cares what anyone else thought. There's always going to be someone who has something to say!!
