Perhaps the most ORIGINAL reason for a BM to back out of the BP **Updated further down, with pics of my former BM**
Original post by MJDoc12
so let me give you some background. i lived in the south carolina for a few years, and during that time i had a roommate who became a great friend. he is gay, and used to do professional drag queen shows. but becase of family pressure, he hung up the heels and dresses.
so he was going to be in my BP as a 'Bridesman' standing in a tux, on my side with my MOH and female BM. well when i spoke to him on friday, he told me we had to talk, and told me to sit down. he then proceeds to tell me that he has decided to pursue his dream in winning a national drag pagaent, and that he will be getting plastic surgery for breast implants, liposuction, and butt implants!!!! he will also begin taking hormones to achieve more feminine qualities and grow his hair long, and maybe receive from lip, and cheek injections.
needless to say, it would be a little weird for him to be in a tuxedo while being in a sort of 'transition.' i just sat there with my mouth dropped to the floor and didn't know what to say. ultimately he told me that he wanted to step out of the BP for my own sake, and didnt want anyone to be 'uncomfortable'. i don't care what he does, as long as he's happy.
i just had to laugh in that i don't know of anyone who had a BM back out to become a full time drag queen!!!
DandS
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Wow
That was very nice that he backed down so that the attention is focused on you and FH. I am glad that he will still be at your wedding.
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That must have been hard for him and at least he was honest and upfront. I'm sure you appreciated it!
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Man that is original! At least he was honest and upfront about it. Darn it, I wish I looked that good in a dress! I'm saying that to be mean, I really wish I did!
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I think you win for the most original reason!!!
ChrissynRicky
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You Win!!!!!!!
Best of luck to him in his future endeavors.
MJDoc12
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Posted by mycrayon1
Man that is original! At least he was honest and upfront about it. Darn it, I wish I looked that good in a dress! I'm saying that to be mean, I really wish I did!
u know what's funny? that is a cocktail dress he stole from his mom's closet and cut up to be sexier! LOL
he is great at what he does--so i know if he wants to win a pagaent, it will totally happen! i'm happy for him, but bummed he won't be in the BP. but it's okay, his dreams are more important than my wedding.
