Personal Question...

eogara Posted: Mar 18, 2004 08:51 AM

Personal Question...

Are you and FH going to stop having ... for any period of time before the wedding to make the wedding night special? I think I might want to but I'm not sure for how long and how FH will feel about it.

(Sorry if this question offends anyone. )

NYCHICK Posted: Mar 18, 2004 08:53 AM

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there was thread about this a while ago. No one is offended. i personally am moving out 1 month before my wedding, so needless to say there will be no nookie, but we are also not even going to see each other until the rehearsal and big day

eta - I also plan on cutting him for an extra month before I move out just...........o the suffereing

eogara Posted: Mar 18, 2004 08:55 AM

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Wow, for the whole month? You have willpower!!

Nookie - that's just the type of word I was looking for but couldn't think of it. Thanks

brideinapril Posted: Mar 18, 2004 08:55 AM

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I don't think my fi would agree with that!!! I thought of it though. However it will be special anyway because we will be doing it as husband and wife!!!!

btrflygrl Posted: Mar 18, 2004 09:24 AM

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we decided when we met with the Pastor to stop at 1 month....yea..that didn't happen come Valentine's Day since it was our 2 year anniversary....I think we cut it off about a week before the wedding.

FLaCaTaCa Posted: Mar 18, 2004 09:59 AM

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You girls can do it. I will put it to you this way....My FH and I have never ever!!!
We have been together for a year a 6 months and never. YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!!

I WILL HELP!!!!!!!!

It is not easy, oh man, it is not easy but what the heck. I feel like if we made it this far we better go all the way!!!!

eogara Posted: Mar 18, 2004 10:02 AM

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Posted by FLaCaTaCa

You girls can do it. I will put it to you this way....My FH and I have never ever!!!
We have been together for a year a 6 months and never. YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!!

I WILL HELP!!!!!!!!

It is not easy, oh man, it is not easy but what the heck. I feel like if we made it this far we better go all the way!!!!

You just don't know what you're missing !! No, you're right, we should be able to but we live together so it makes it a little more difficult. I'd like to though, even if it's just for a week.

dm24angel Posted: Mar 18, 2004 10:04 AM

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We talked about it briefly, just mentioned it, Im not sure how long he will agree too..Im afraid if we make it too long then towards the end...closer to the date....we will give in and it will be a waste...I think a month would be the most, but not sure if he will agree to that yet ( he says thats nothing new anyway...ugghh men! )

FLaCaTaCa Posted: Mar 18, 2004 10:05 AM

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I know! It sucks! This wedding could not come any sooner!!!!!!!

diamondgrlie Posted: Mar 18, 2004 10:10 AM

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When my best friend got married they stopped for 3 months! But she said it was the best the wedding night for many reasons.

I asked FH about this and he said... 'It wouldnt be any different.'

We are like an old married couple already because we have lived together for 4 years.

violet Posted: Mar 18, 2004 10:11 AM

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No, I'm not going to not do it for awhile. I don't think it'll make a difference.

tourist Posted: Mar 18, 2004 10:15 AM

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What if you abstain for a motnh or so, and then that night ( esp. if it is a late wedding)
you are too tired & don't, umm 'consumate your marriage'.

Would you be dissapointed. if you don' t have an early flight the next day, I guess there always is the morning. . .

dm24angel Posted: Mar 18, 2004 10:17 AM

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Posted by tourist

What if you abstain for a motnh or so, and then that night ( esp. if it is a late wedding)
you are too tired & don't, umm 'consumate your marriage'.

Would you be dissapointed. if you don' t have an early flight the next day, I guess there always is the morning. . .

That thought crossed my mind too..I have heard a lot of couples end up passing out...our wedding ends at 1am and we are having an after party..Im afraid on the wedding night I wont even know who he is by the time we get to the hotel

eogara Posted: Mar 18, 2004 10:20 AM

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Posted by tourist

What if you abstain for a motnh or so, and then that night ( esp. if it is a late wedding)
you are too tired & don't, umm 'consumate your marriage'.

Would you be dissapointed. if you don' t have an early flight the next day, I guess there always is the morning. . .

That's my fear! He actually already said if we don't that night, that would be fine since that's not what it's about for us. That would really suck to do all that planning and either fall asleep before we got the chance or do it to just do it and then it really sucks. Hmm. Maybe just a week then.

FLaCaTaCa Posted: Mar 18, 2004 10:59 AM

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I am definitely NOT going to pass out and you all know why!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't care how tired he is or I am!!!
We are doing it!!!!!

Sorry, I sound so vulgar but DAMN!!!!!!!!