Are you and FH going to stop having ... for any period of time before the wedding to make the wedding night special? I think I might want to but I'm not sure for how long and how FH will feel about it.
(Sorry if this question offends anyone. )
kel2004
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I keep trying to prepare my FH for the possibility that we may be too tired that night to do anything. He insists that we will do it no matter what. Typical guy.
jennyhet
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We waited 6 months-- And then we were both so tired, we didn't anything on the wedding night--But the next morning we did
eogara
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Please, if we don't do it for a week, then he is going to be done in like 30 seconds. Nothing romantic about that.
Now THAT is a good point...
kathleenmarie
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Im not cutting us off, and if we dont do it that night Im not really thinking thats a big deal either. Hey, we have the rest of our lives!
violet
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It is true. If we don't do it for even a week, he won't last too long. He has a really high sex drive.
violet
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This just made me think of FH's ex-friend. We heard through another friend that his ex-friend told him that when he got married, on his honeymoon night, his wife wouldn't give him any, she just said NO. I understand sometimes you can be too tired, but if the one person does want it, how can you not give it that night? But she is not a nice person.
eogara
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She doesn't sound like it! Yeah, I think if one of you wants to, at least that night, the other has to submit.
NYCHICK
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I am not planning on having crazy of the wall action just something romantic considering it is 'THE NIGHT'.........lasting long isn't really an issue cause i will honestly be bushwacked..........you have the rest of the honeymoon to get back in gear, not to mention the rest of your lives
violet
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I know. I don't want an hour of it, but I don't want two minutes of it either. But I really don't think it'll make a difference whether we don't do it or not. We have gone through periods where he is working nights that we didn't do it for awhile, and it sucked.
9.17.04bride
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Since it was 6 months yesterday to our wedding day, I asked FH if he wanted to stop until wedding day. He told me I was crazy. I think a month is a good amount of time .
LadyPrincess
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What if you abstain for a motnh or so, and then that night ( esp. if it is a late wedding) you are too tired & don't, umm 'consumate your marriage'.
Would you be dissapointed. if you don' t have an early flight the next day, I guess there always is the morning. . .
I ASKED MY FH THE SAME THING !!!! I said - it will be our history if we 'dont' on the wedding night LOL
He said - dont worry, we will .......
I am so glad we have these boards to talk abt stuff like this
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Posted by tourist
What if you abstain for a motnh or so, and then that night ( esp. if it is a late wedding) you are too tired & don't, umm 'consumate your marriage'.
Would you be dissapointed. if you don' t have an early flight the next day, I guess there always is the morning. . .
That thought crossed my mind too..I have heard a lot of couples end up passing out...our wedding ends at 1am and we are having an after party..Im afraid on the wedding night I wont even know who he is by the time we get to the hotel
That's my fear too.. I mean we will be out all day, and the party ends at 12, and by the time we get to the hotel.. we are gonna pass out.. but we have talked about it.. giving it up for a month before..
heidla
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With as opposite as our schedules are there is no real need to cut each other off!!
Smolokoff
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2 weeks to go and we still haven't stopped. I don't see the need. Everytime is just as special as the first time for me. If it weren't, I would be worried. That's why he is the one I am marrying, isn't it? Or one of the reasons, at least. LOL.
nehaliasz
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I'd like to. Maybe 2 weeks before we'll stop.
June13/04
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I'm not spending the night before the wedding with him... isn't that enough!!!!
OctGroom
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I could see me and the FW doing 1 one week before the Wedding... two weeks tops! LOL
Nah.. one week.
Of course.. I am worried hat the Wedding night will be a pass out session since we'll be partying til 2am.. and we'll have been up all day... so I hope we can quickie time alone.. because I'll fall asleep. LOL JK
