Ok.....I have a question ladies. I know most of you are living with your FH and some will be living soon also. So you guys have already been intimate. Sooo is there anything special you guys are planning on doing on your special night?? Whips? Chains? Cuffs?? No but seriously things like bubbles bath, candles, whipped cream, etc.??
And I've heard so many people talking about abstinance 2-3 weeks before the weddding night. What is your opinion on this?Im not trying to be nosy, but I was wondering if anyone else had thought about this.
TIA!!
AmandaLynn04
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I think we'll probably hold off for a few weeks beforehand.
However, I know FH and me, and, we'll both be so tired, so, while we might have great intentions before, the night of, we'll probably just 'do it.' No special 'equipment'.
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well...i hadn't really thought about doing anything special until you just brought it up...but they did say there is a jacuzzi in the honeymoon suite of the hotel...i guess a romantic dip would be nice...i don't really know, i'll have to think of something good to surprise him...
and i guess i'd better HOPE to get some really cute lingerie at my shower!!
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Posted by AmandaLynn04
I think we'll probably hold off for a few weeks beforehand.
However, I know FH and me, and, we'll both be so tired, so, while we might have great intentions before, the night of, we'll probably just 'do it.' No special 'equipment'.
LMAO!!!!
AmandaLynn04
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By do it, I mean in the butt, naturally.
rahana316
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Posted by AmandaLynn04 : No special 'equipment'.
I hear you. You will be too tired to take out some phonics for you and DH.
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I also hear how MOST couples dont have sex on their wedding night...Honestly im gonna have to be up early in the morning, its a hectic day and our wedding ends at 2am, by the time we tip everyone and finally get out of there i will be exhausted and up and about for close to 20 hours, so hearing things like that dont surprise me.
But havent thought much about this, right now im trying to figure out what were going to do after, if were going to get a room and where, bc we might leave the next day for our HM so not sure lol
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We live together and are not planning on holding off on anything pre-wedding,we're also spending the night together the night before the wedding just like every other night.. JMO, but it doesn't make any sense to me to hold off. Not knocking it, and I've read others' logic behind it and if it works for them great, it just doesn't make sense to me. That said, I'm one of the last of my friends to get married and so far, a HIGH majority of them didn't do anything on their wedding night but pass out.
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Posted by AmandaLynn04
By do it, I mean in the butt, naturally.
right, I figured that... i don't know why you had to explain yourself. LOL
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Posted by missliss
We live together and are not planning on holding off on anything pre-wedding,we're also spending the night together the night before the wedding just like every other night.. JMO, but it doesn't make any sense to me to hold off. Not knocking it, and I've read others' logic behind it and if it works for them great, it just doesn't make sense to me. That said, I'm one of the last of my friends to get married and so far, a HIGH majority of them didn't do anything on their wedding night but pass out.
I am not holding out either...The few weeks before the wedding will probably be the most stressful and ill need to relieve some of that stress lol
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Posted by AmandaLynn04
By do it, I mean in the butt, naturally.
right, I figured that... i don't know why you had to explain yourself. LOL
my boss wants to know what the joke is..
KarinAmanda
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Posted by AmandaLynn04
By do it, I mean in the butt, naturally.
naturally - of course!
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This is just my opinion but I don't see the point in abstaining for 2 weeks prior to the wedding. I think our wedding night will be special because it is our wedding night. Some champagne and candles might be nice but other than that I think we will save anything different for the HM
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my goal is to be the first couple in my whole family to NOT pass out on their wedding night
so far, no one has accomplished this i am the youngest and the last to get married so i am the last hope ( out of siblings and cousins)
missliss
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Posted by Espo22
Posted by missliss
We live together and are not planning on holding off on anything pre-wedding,we're also spending the night together the night before the wedding just like every other night.. JMO, but it doesn't make any sense to me to hold off. Not knocking it, and I've read others' logic behind it and if it works for them great, it just doesn't make sense to me. That said, I'm one of the last of my friends to get married and so far, a HIGH majority of them didn't do anything on their wedding night but pass out.
I am not holding out either...The few weeks before the wedding will probably be the most stressful and ill need to relieve some of that stress lol
Amen. And i couldn't even IMAGINE the ball of stress that FH would be if I decided to hold out on him. Lord, he might not make it down the aisle.
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Well seeing as FH doesnt come home until like a month or maybe 2 before our actual wedding from being in Japan for a whole YEAR (WITHOUT SEX)...I think no nevermind I KNOW FH is going to want it every night for the next couple years hahahaha
But seriously...I honestly think FH is going to want to do it as much as possible to make up for missing it for a whole year. So I have a feeling we would probably even be doing it the ngiht before our wedding
but on the wedding night- I dont know I know we will most likely do it no matter how tired just because FH is a little horn ball
missliss
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By do it, I mean in the butt, naturally.
I soooo wish they had an emoticon for spitting out your water all over the keyboard.
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Posted by Espo22
Posted by missliss
We live together and are not planning on holding off on anything pre-wedding,we're also spending the night together the night before the wedding just like every other night.. JMO, but it doesn't make any sense to me to hold off. Not knocking it, and I've read others' logic behind it and if it works for them great, it just doesn't make sense to me. That said, I'm one of the last of my friends to get married and so far, a HIGH majority of them didn't do anything on their wedding night but pass out.
I am not holding out either...The few weeks before the wedding will probably be the most stressful and ill need to relieve some of that stress lol
I guess in a way you're right. There is no point in holding back. But sometimes it' good to hold it in cause when it comes out after a long while. wellllllllll ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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i highly doubt that we will be doing anything the night of our wedding !
thats what the honeymoon is for
AmandaLynn04
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Posted by missliss
Posted by AmandaLynn04
By do it, I mean in the butt, naturally.
I soooo wish they had an emoticon for spitting out your water all over the keyboard.
As BOTW, I feel it is my duty to keep you girls entertained during the workday!
