Photo Opportunity

JudyBee Posted: Jul 26, 2002 08:03 PM

Photo Opportunity

I have a slight dilema.

My HTB's sister should have been married in May but postponed until October which has now made our wedding before hers.

Future SIL was not expecting to have me in her wedding pics as we were not married yet (3 months after her). My question is, should I have her Fiance in my pictures

By the way I picked up my marriage license today

angie3 Posted: Jul 26, 2002 09:18 PM

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Why can't you have both - meaning some shots with and some shots without? I think it is mean not to include someone at all and i can't believe she was gonna do that to you. God, with all the proofs you get nowadays you could have been in ten shots and it wouldn't have mattered! NO one says you HAVE to pick a photo with her to go in teh album but at least let them stand together for some of them.

taraalissa Posted: Jul 26, 2002 09:23 PM

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Let me get this straight. You were to be 3 months away from marrying her brother but since you weren't officially his wife yet, she didn't want you in the pics? What a witch. What does your FH say about this?

jennbaby Posted: Jul 27, 2002 12:53 AM

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what if you told her now the same thing she told you?! i think thats ridiculous on her part.
do what YOU feel is right.

JudyBee Posted: Jul 27, 2002 07:50 AM

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I was going to wait until her day to see if she changed her mind so I did not say anything to her brother.

I have decided to put her HTB in the picture. I just won't have so many pictures taken of them. I just hope they do not postpone (or cancel) again.

Thanks for your help.

J.

yabbobay Posted: Jul 27, 2002 08:13 AM

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My sister and FBIL are getting married 3 months after us...before they were engaged I said that I wanted him in half. We still did take pictures as an immediate family and then added him in.

JudyBee Posted: Jul 28, 2002 10:17 AM

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This is the latest. FH and I discussed this situation yesterday and he does not want FBIL in any of the pictures. He feels that since he postponed his marriage to his sister once, he could do it again, or even cancel.

I think I will wait a little closed to the wedding (20 days to go).

michele31 Posted: Jul 28, 2002 10:26 AM

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Take some photos with and some photos without. That way you can see what happens. I think she was being very rude to you though.

Marnles Posted: Jul 28, 2002 10:37 AM

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I agree with taking some with and some without. Even if it's just like 3 or 4. My brother was married about 4 years ago. My FH and I were nowhere near being married, and that's what my brother did with my FH. My brother saw how close we were, and even put one of the pictures in his album, although Chris and I weren't engaged yet. I am so glad he did! If they do in fact go through with the wedding, it will be nice to have him in the pictures. Good luck with it!