PICS B4 CEREMONY**HELP!**

Phyl, it sounds like you've made up your mind about not wanting to take pictures before the ceremony...don't let a photographer or anyone make you change your mind!!! Whether it's some age-old tradition or not, do what you want...pictures are only secondary on your wedding day. In other words, the day isn't about taking pictures, it *IS* about having your wedding the way you want it (even if it includes not seeing your man before you walk down the aisle).