Ok, why is it she has to complain about the dress I chose. I mean its my wedding right? Her taste is not at all good either. She keeps on complaining that she is short and it wont look right. I mean use your common sense, you get measured and fitted. This is not like going into a regular store and buying something off the rack.
What should I do... I try so hard not to say nething and shes my cousin ERRR!!!
I just feel like blowing up on her cause she has a mentality that she is a princess (shes 25 yrs old) and things should go how she wants it.
What do I do?
Noelsgirl
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Its's a good thing she kicked herself out!! U don't need negative people like that in ur bridal party. I had to kick my half sister out because she is a liar, so even though it's family, u better off without her. She is jealous of you, and it's just a bloody dress!! Why would she get so upset about it and cause so drama.. She'a negative hater!!!
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When she agreed to be a bridesmaid she agreed to help the bride and do what the bride asks of her, including a dress whether she likes it or not. If you trust your judgement and trust your taste then I wouldn't say anything to her. just let her complain and whatever about it and if she asks you a direct question like 'do I REALLY have to wear this' you just tell her 'I asked u to be a bridesmaid because I want you next to me that day and part of my team. If you don't like the dress that much and you REFUSE to wear it then maybe it's better that you come as a guest. You will be missed and I still love you.' Since she's a cousin not a friend you don't want to totally mess up a relationship. I see my bridal party as the girls in my life that I can tell anything to and talk to them about anything, including if they upset me. If that's you're case then I really would just talk to her and not blow up at her. Even with her being 25, you said she's a princess and wants everything her way, you apparently are the mature one in the relationship.
Edited: Ok I changed my mind! I can't believe she said all those nasty things! that's TERRIBLE! And she's your first cousin? And not to be involved in the wedding? That's some cr*p! Good luck with it all and I'm sure your mom will be ok! Be happy that she pulled out because it's better safe then sorry with the drama that she has started! Good luck!
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o my goodness so sorry you have to deal with this cr@p!
Honestly who bases their involvement on the dress. This is not about her its your wedding and the BP should wear what you want them to. Even if it is a sheet. I would never base being in a BP on the dress. It maybe better off that she left!
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This is the dress I chose for the Bridesmaids. and this is the dress she is complaining about. I aint trying to be mean but screw it , I have had it with her. This is only half of what happened .
She is a short stumpy, chubby person and people who are B*tches dont deserve anything nice said about them. ***, why act like a F'n brat. her modow is always (Im a princess and I get my way) lol your friggin 26 yrs old gimme a break. I told her in the beginning. I AM SORRY THIS TIME ITS NOT GOING TO BE YOUR WAY. ITS MY WEDDING!!!!! and she was fine now its a big problem. UGHHHHGHGHGHGHGGHGHGHGH
My other girls have no issue about the dress and they cant wait and love it.
The dress is gorgeous, her a$$ gotta go!!! She is just a biatch!!
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Its def official... I am not going to have her back in if she askes...too much stress!!!!!
Diana508
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The dress is hot! I wouldn't include her from anything here on in being that she already said she didn't want to be in it.
Spring143
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that dress is beautiful---her loss. seems like shes just blaming the dress but maybe other reasons why she cant be in
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Posted by Beautifly
Her last Response since shes a little brat.
'no texts, and no phone calls. if i'm not comfortable in something, i won't wear it. i'm sorry. i'm glad they like it. no u don't have to make sure with me but it would've been nice to have been asked since i'm the one who would have to wear it. sorry i can't honor the dress you chose, and yes this is my decision because it seems to be your way or no way and thats fine. like you said, its your wedding. i don't know if i will be showing up anywhere or doing anything. you have your friend's, your fam and bobby's fam... so many people... you won't even miss that i'm gone. good night. no need to respond. we both know where we stand'
EEERRRGGGGHHHH!!!! What the hell is wrong with her that dress is HAUTE~~~Im heated right now after reading what she said. This is NOT about no DAMN dress-your cousin has bigger issues like she said and she is talikng it out on you, either that or she is jealous of you. It sounds like she is Trying to ruin your wedding. But after seeing the dress i get it. She is short and chubby so probably in her mind as a princess she wants to still outshine the BRIDE...... Its not about her and she is trying to make it that way. She is probably loving the fact that your upset-- because regardless if i didnt like the dress or not There is better ways to go about things. Hunnie im sorry that she is doing this
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Posted by Noelsgirl
Its's a good thing she kicked herself out!! U don't need negative people like that in ur bridal party. I had to kick my half sister out because she is a liar, so even though it's family, u better off without her. She is jealous of you, and it's just a bloody dress!! Why would she get so upset about it and cause so drama.. She'a negative hater!!!
i totally agree omg @ ur ex-bm
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Its def official... I am not going to have her back in if she askes...too much stress!!!!!
great decision... stand firm...u are going to hear it from the familia
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I'm actually looking at that same dress for my MOH! Good taste! But about your cousin, ughhh just forget it because she is being a PIA right now!!!!
