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Planning
Dana Z to Be
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 07:47 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 07:47 PM
Re: Planning
I hear ya... all I want to do is plan too. We got the hall and the church. That's about it so far. We are going to go with a DJ, just not sure who we will be booking. I would like to go with EJ the DJ only b/c somone I went to college with works with them. I have heard only good things.The back yard wedding sounds beautiful. My cousin had that and it was such a great time!
bkmonkey
Posted: Apr 14, 2006 02:41 PM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2006 02:41 PM
Re: Planning
Wow .... what a great site for favors www.favorwarehouse.com
Thanks. Is everyone booking halls and such now ? I didn't think you could so soon.
Monkey
moonlithaze
Posted: Apr 16, 2006 11:38 PM+

Posted: Apr 16, 2006 11:38 PM
Re: Planning
Wow you girls already booked your halls, I haven't started looking at any in person yet
I have a question, did you have to put a big down payment down or just a small monthy payment. I feel so clueless about the whole process sometimes
sealie321
Posted: Apr 16, 2006 11:59 PM+

Posted: Apr 16, 2006 11:59 PM
Re: Planning
I had to put down $1500. There will be 3 much larger payments before the big day! It wasn't so bad and I think that I could have put it on a credit card if I needed to do that. Even for my DJ, photographer/videographer I only needed to put smaller down payments down.Good luck! It's a lot of fun to plan, but very expensive!!
bkmonkey
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 01:44 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 01:44 PM
Re: Planning
Posted by moonlithaze
Wow you girls already booked your halls, I haven't started looking at any in person yetI have a question, did you have to put a big down payment down or just a small monthy payment. I feel so clueless about the whole process sometimes
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I know what you mean on feeling clueless on the planning
susdoug
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 01:49 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 01:49 PM
Re: Planning
I am concerned with getting the hall and the church. I feel like once those are booked I can really start doing more. I was bummed at first about 2008, but at least we will have more time to pay things off and plan. My fiance recently started a new job...he is a stock broker and he changed the office he works for. So he really wanted to be sure his job was secure and he could save money.
bkmonkey
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 01:53 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 01:53 PM
Re: Planning
Yes I know what u mean 2008 seems so far away but once you get the ball rolling 2008 will be here before u know .... well that's what I keep telling myself
BTW
congratulations
susdoug
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 02:01 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 02:01 PM
Re: Planning
I keep telling myself that too! And that is what everyone tells me. Have you looked anywhere yet for your reception?
bkmonkey
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 02:07 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 02:07 PM
Re: Planning
Since I'm from brooklyn I been looking around my area and came across The Grand Prostect Hall. Beautiful place
... Lol since then I been seeing their commerical on TV just about everyday. Even while watcing music videos on VH1
Dana Z to Be
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 02:09 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 02:09 PM
Re: Planning
I think we all feel the same way but I will give a lot more time to plan and save for the most special day of all. I got the hall and the church. I feel like I really don't have to do anything at the moment but start saving for everything else. Is anyone having an engagement party? We decided not to. My mom was looking around & everything was just so expansive. We sent out Announcements and got lots of cards. Some ppl even sent gifts.
susdoug
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 02:09 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 02:09 PM
Re: Planning
Did you see if they have a website? Nassau county has some nice places, don't know if you would want to go there.
susdoug
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 02:13 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 02:13 PM
Re: Planning
Once I get the hall and church booked and I feel like everything is not so up in the air...I want to send out save the date cards. We'd like to have an engagement party, but not really call it that. Just have our friends and family over for a big BBQ in the summer. I figure if people want to give a gift, they will whether there is a party for it or not.
Let's just use it as a reason to get together and have fun!
BTW...can I ask what kind of pricing you got at Crest Hollow?
bkmonkey
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 02:15 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 02:15 PM
Re: Planning
http://www.grandprospect.com/I'm still looking around. Just have to watch my Budget because most of my FH family lives in florida so we have to get them over here
I'm thinking about buttering up my Uncle Vito for some help see if he knows any places
Dana Z to Be
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 02:24 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 02:24 PM
Re: Planning
My FH aunt works there so we actually got a really great price and a TON of things for free like two bottles of wine on the tables, tooling with lights hanging fromt he celling, longer cocktail hour, and a few other things. I didn't think all the little things that you would want could be so expensive, but it is! I believe they gave it to us or 86 a head.
The hall is beautiful though. I would check it out.
susdoug
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 03:41 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 03:41 PM
Re: Planning
The place looks nice! I know what you mean about family in FL. My FH parents live there and most of my family lives there. We thought about getting married in FL, but then all our friends would have to fly down!
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