So, I'm talking to my BM over e-mail and she's asking some question about things we've booked and then says- wow, I feel like I know nothing about your wedding, you guys are really doing it all on your own...
Now, i feel bad. Are you guys including other people in your planning?
Ray8183
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FH and I. Everyone else just doesn't care.
Im_My_Own_Princess
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I wish I could plan it with only FH.. but his mother and my parents need to know EVERYTHING thats going on.
BriansWifey
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i think most of the planning is me, a lil fh and a lot of LIW feedback.
but i tell my MOH everything about the wedding so she's up to date with everything but i dont really turn to her for help.... not yet at least.
Lil OC
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I let my mom know everything that's going on. It's honestly mostly all me though. FH has been to a few appts but he has a short attention span for wedding-related details. My MOH knows mostly everything going on too. FH's parents kinda just stay out of the way LOL
NYYankeeGirl72
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For the most part I would say just me knows what is going on.....FH just wants to know when he needs to pay for things other than that, I am the one planning this whole shindig.
I prefer it that way, coz then everything will end up being my way!! That sounded totally bridezilla-ish!
gravemiss
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for the most part it is just me and FH. although I do keep the parents in the loop.
asg450
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FH and I do the bulk of the planning; well I do and he just says 'yes that's nice.' We keep our parents informed here and there or I'll ask my MOH for advice but really everyone doesn't need to know everything about the wedding.
MisyMiss32
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FH, my daughter and I are the ones who know all the plans. I only fill in the BP with what they ask or what they need to know.
CappyGirl
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Our parents and siblings are looped in, mostly my sister though, since she's planning a wedding as well. Mostly its just FH and me doing the planning though. My shower has been all mom and sis though, and they've been helpful with a million other things.
ETA: I haven't really asked for a lot of input from anyone, I guess.
elp6421
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Not really, mostly FH and I. I will run things over with my mom or sister but that its. Oh yea.. and of course LI wedding girls.
marinai7
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FH and I make the main plans, but include his parents a lot. Our wedding party is not really asked to do anything. I am tooo anal to not do things myself.
lissylissa
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Just me and FH. We tell family and friends when we book stuff but for the most part its been just us except for flowers that's me and my mom! :)
