Here is a list that I used to help me. Many of thepictures are geared towards Jewish weddings but you can edit that if need be to suit your needs. Itis virtually impossible to remember every permutation and computation of family and bridal party members. Use this as a guide but not to drive your photographer buck nutty.
Bride: Groom: Bride’s mother: Bride’s father: Bride’s grandmother: Groom’s Mother: Grooms Father: Groom’s Brothers: Bride’s maid of honor: Bride’s matron of honor: Bride’s bridesmaids: Best Man: Groomsmen: Ring Bearer: Flower Girl: Junior Ushers: Junior bridesmaids Brides extended family Groom's extended family
Getting Ready
The Bride
Brides Hair Brides getting make-up applied Dress hanging up Details of dress Bride dressing for wedding Mother helping bride put on veil Mother and grandmother adjusting veil Mother looking at bride Bride looking in mirror Bride putting on garter Bride putting on garter with bridesmaids looking on Bride with mother Bride with grandmother Bride with Maid of Honor Bride with her attendants
The Groom
Groom putting on tie and boutonniere Groom with mother Groom with groomsmen fixing his tie Groom & Best Man Groom & Best Man shaking hands Groom & Groomsmen Groom & groomsmen & ring bearer Groom & flower girl Groom & ring bearer
Old Westbury Gardens (or any other site you take photos at)
Both Bride and Groom’s first reactions seeing each other Bride & Bridesmaids Bride & Groomsmen Groom & Groomsmen Groom & Bridesmaids Bride and Groom with entire bridal party Bride and Groom with the Brides family Bride and Groom with the Brides family & grooms mother Bride & Flower Girl Bride and Ring Bearer Groom with Flower Girl Groom with Ring Bearer Bride & Groom with Flower Girl and Ring Bearer
Bride & Groom Kissing Groom Kissing Brides forehead Bride kissing Groom cheek Bride & Groom 'gazing' at each other Bride & Groom holding hands Bride and groom in silhouette Grooms arms around Brides waist Groom carrying Bride Groom hugging Bride Close-up of rings Portrait of mother and bride Portrait of father and bride Portrait of grandmother and bride Individual shots of Bride with each bridesmaids Groom & Groomsmen looking tough Bouquets being held Groom, Groomsmen & Ring bearer from behind Bride & Groom with Bridal Party in a huddle
After Old Westbury Gardens & Before Ceremony
Bride alone under Chuppah (Jewish wedding) Bride & Groom under chuppah Bride (and groom) & Brides Parents under chuppah (and Grandmother) Brides Parents Brides Parents & Grandmother Bride & Groom signing Kettubah (Jewish Marriage Contract at Jewish weddings) Kettubah (Close up) Bride & Groom around reception site (If time permits)
Pictures at the Ceremony
Chuppah before and during ceremony (including top covering) Guests arriving Front of everyone going down the aisle (bridal party & family) Back of bride/groom walking down the aisle (guests using bubbles or sparklers) Flower girl Ring bearer 3 Junior ushers Chuppah from the back during the ceremony Close up of Groom waiting Groom first seeing Bride Groom meeting Bride Giving away Bride looking at Groom Groom looking at Bride Bride and Groom front view and back view Bride circling groom Exchanging Vows Faces of Bride & Groom as they exchange vows, rings, breaking glass, and kiss Close up of exchange of rings 7 Readers Bride & Groom sipping wine Groom stepping on glass The kiss Parents looking on and reactions Bridal party looking on Guests looking on Bridal party, parents, Bride & Groom back down aisle Officiant sparkers programs yarmulkas flowers and bouquets
Cocktail Hour
Guests at cocktail hour All food displays, ice sculpture, and bar Place card table Bride & Groom around Reception site (If not done yet) Bride (and Groom with 3 Junior Ushers) Bride & Groom with Brides Aunt & Uncle Bride & Groom with Grooms Father Bride & Groom with Grooms 2 Brothers Bride & Groom with Grooms Dad & Brothers & their families Groom & Brothers Groom, Brothers, & Dad Brides dress bustled
Reception
Some pics of room from balcony during reception Parents being announced Wedding Party being announced Bride & Groom being announced Hora (Jewish dance) and all chair liftings Bride & Groom's first dance Bride's dance with father Groom's dance with mother Bride & Groom's last dance Brides parents dancing Bridal party dancing Guests dancing Bride & Groom kissing in middle of crowded dance floor Anniversary Dance Couples and winners Blessings: Brides father cutting challah bread & Brides uncle with wine Toasting Bride & Groom Bride & Groom with Champagne glasses Bride & Groom's kiss after the toast Wedding Cake (before & after being cut) Cake Topper Bride & Groom cutting cake Bride feeding Groom Groom feeding Bride Kiss after cutting cake Bride tossing bouquet Groom taking off garter Bride showing rings to bridesmaids General dancing shots (wide, close up, from above) Flower girl and ring bearer together Candids of guests and bridal party as conditions permit Kids playing & dancing Posed pictures of EVERY TABLE All food and bar Viennese Table displays Reception details such as: place cards, guest book, centerpieces, decorations, table settings, champagne glasses, DJ & MC, wedding cake table Posed departure shot of bride and groom (kissing, waving, etc.)