please comfort me..I'm alittle nervous

You're not a psycho.

I know what you mean. Just don't think about it. You said it yourself. You totally trust FH. Don't even think about it and make yourself crazy.

That guy is the sleazebag - NOT your FH.

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

You're not a psycho.

I know what you mean. Just don't think about it. You said it yourself. You totally trust FH. Don't even think about it and make yourself crazy.

That guy is the sleazebag - NOT your FH.

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I know, I know..i just don't trust his friend and i can't stand that fh would hang out with a guy like that,, ya know

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

I know, I know..i just don't trust his friend and i can't stand that fh would hang out with a guy like that,, ya know

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I know. Guys are different. He probably feels weird just dropping him as a friend. Whereas we could turn around to a slutty friend and be like 'I don't like what you do so I can't associate with you anymore.'

Try not to get upset about it.... Don't think about it - you'll kill yourself with the 'what if's' you know?

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Posted by 2007 Crescent Bride

You are not a total psycho but you said you trust FH so it shouldn't matter who he is hanging with. cheer up!!

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i know what your saying..but i hate this guy!!! but your right! thanks

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

I know, I know..i just don't trust his friend and i can't stand that fh would hang out with a guy like that,, ya know

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I know. Guys are different. He probably feels weird just dropping him as a friend. Whereas we could turn around to a slutty friend and be like 'I don't like what you do so I can't associate with you anymore.'

Try not to get upset about it.... Don't think about it - you'll kill yourself with the 'what if's' you know?

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very true! thanks

You are not a Psycho. But remember that it is he who is the sleezball not FH. I don't know why guys have friends like that but guys don't look at things the same way -- I am sure he knows his friend is sleezball but has never done anything to him personally so he can see past it (unlike us caddy women hahaha!)

Try and not think about it (I know easier said then done).

And remember the good guys outnumber the bad One on this trip!

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Posted by anneandchris

You are not a Psycho. But remember that it is he who is the sleezball not FH. I don't know why guys have friends like that but guys don't look at things the same way -- I am sure he knows his friend is sleezball but has never done anything to him personally so he can see past it (unlike us caddy women hahaha!)

Try and not think about it (I know easier said then done).

And remember the good guys outnumber the bad One on this trip!

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thats very true..at the same time, my brother, his brothers will be there! and his best man is such a great guy..

it is okay to feel that way. I can relate. I knew my FH bachelor party would have a friend or 2 that are single, have wandering eyes and were totally pushing the lap dances,etc. which I was not comfortable with. But he reassured me that he was not into it and I had nothing to worry about.

Have you spoken to FH about your feelings? Is your bachelorette party the same weekend? That may help keep your mind off of it.

But like you said you trust FH. I do know what you mean about FH having a friend that you just don't trust. But it will be fine.

your brother is going?

Then you have no worries...your brother would not let his sister's FH even consider doing something stupid.

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by anneandchris

You are not a Psycho. But remember that it is he who is the sleezball not FH. I don't know why guys have friends like that but guys don't look at things the same way -- I am sure he knows his friend is sleezball but has never done anything to him personally so he can see past it (unlike us caddy women hahaha!)

Try and not think about it (I know easier said then done).

And remember the good guys outnumber the bad One on this trip!

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thats very true..at the same time, my brother, his brothers will be there! and his best man is such a great guy..

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So then it is safe to say NO need to worry. Not that I thought there was but you know what I mean.

Awwww! You sound like you trust your FH 100 percent. Dont ever think someone could coax him into cheating on you. If you trust him then you know nothing could make him do that to you. It really ***** he has a friend like that but what can you do but have faith that your FH wont be like him and you know he wont. He loves you and hes marrying YOU!!

Plus, why would he cheat on you, youre gorgeous!

You aren't a psycho Kristin but just remember that you totally trust FH and you have nothing to worry about

yikes thats horrible feeling I am so sorry my love Just have faith in FH that he will tell this guy where to go if he tries stupid stuff ugh

ha i totally understand...some of fh's friends are a bit ehhh but of course he wont just get rid of them

its okay though...i wouldnt worry. make sure ure busy when he's gone and with friends just hanging out to take your mind off of it.

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

I know, I know..i just don't trust his friend and i can't stand that fh would hang out with a guy like that,, ya know

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I know. Guys are different. He probably feels weird just dropping him as a friend. Whereas we could turn around to a slutty friend and be like 'I don't like what you do so I can't associate with you anymore.'

Try not to get upset about it.... Don't think about it - you'll kill yourself with the 'what if's' you know?

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i agree with Jenn....gotta not think about it because those 'what ifs' will kill ya!

and like you said you trust FH so although this guy is a dirtbag he can't influence FH to do anything he doesn't want to do....and FH knows he is marrying you and loves you and I am sure he would never let some stupid guy ever ruin that for him!!

but don't worry kristin you aren't a psycho!! i understand where you are coming from.

Aww, I understand your feelings and don't blame you! Try not to think about it too much though. I don't think you have anything to worry about. You have enough trust in him...I'm sure your FH is not like this guy. And, your brothers and his brothers will be there, so I'm sure they would put this guy in his place if he started getting out of line. Besides, from the way it looks in all of your pictures, he adores you! I don't think he'd mess up a good thing!

you are not psycho - dont worry though! everything will be fine and before you know it, his b party will be over and done with....i think its normal to get a little nervous - i know i would have those feelings and i trust my FH 100% but just the thought of him being so far away and being so drunk makes me nervous so you are not alone in your feelings!

you are not a psycho!
But just put it out of your mind! If you trust FH then that is all that matters. Nothing will go wrong...
It is just a weekend with his friend!