So my fh is going to vegas for his bachelor party and he has one guy as his gm that is a total sleezeball...he cheated on practically every woman he has ever been with..so when I heard fh's bachelor party is in 'sin city' needless to say I became a little nervous..especially because this gm is such a jerk, has little respect for women and I just get afraid that he will entice my fh to cheat, get drunk beyond belief, etc.....Don't get me wrong..I totally trust my fh..but I hate this guy so much, I almost wish he wouldn't go with him..please tell me I'm not a total psycho..how would you react?
Bride908
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I think all our FH's have friends like that. Dont worry about it. Your FH will be fine. Guys like that are perfectly fine being sleeves (oops meant sleezes lol) on their own - they dont need an entourage. Besides if FH was going to cheat he doesnt need to go all the way to Vegas to do it!!! Dont worry!!!
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Totally know where you are coming from. We all trust our FH's but when they have sleazy friends like that who make them get wasted on that night - you never know what could happen. Just let your FH know your feelings and tell him not to drink too much.
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I know where you are coming from. My FH has a few friends I don't really care for. But I know that my FH isn't like them and would never do anything to hurt me. And I am sure yours is the same way! Talk to him about this, tell him how you feel, just to feel better. But if your brother is there - don't worry!!!
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Your FH loves YOU and he would never do anything to jeopardize your relationship. Good men don't cave in to sleezball friends and it seems to me like you have a good man.
He'll be home before you know it!!!
Do you need a night at the nutty while he is gone?
FinallyEngaged
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Dont worry.... just b/c this guy is a sleeze ball doesnt mean u have to worry about ur FH
Mici n KC
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You're not a psycho. His GM is the sleazeball not your FH. He'll have lots of good people around him so not to worry!
bluekat16
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Your FH knows what he has in you...his friend may be the sleazbag but he isn't. His friend may try to influence him..but your FH sounds like he is responsible and respectful. Try not to worry just trust him...who cres about his friend.
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it is okay to feel that way. I can relate. I knew my FH bachelor party would have a friend or 2 that are single, have wandering eyes and were totally pushing the lap dances,etc. which I was not comfortable with. But he reassured me that he was not into it and I had nothing to worry about.
Have you spoken to FH about your feelings? Is your bachelorette party the same weekend? That may help keep your mind off of it.
But like you said you trust FH. I do know what you mean about FH having a friend that you just don't trust. But it will be fine.
fh knows how I feel..and told me im crazy to think anything! he said he hates strippers (he thinks they are sleezy) and he hates strip clubs..he assured me that he will be gambling the whole time! but its 5 nights in vegas he'll be with a scumbag! lol and yes my brother is going!! and so are his!
Mrs. V 2008
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thanks so much girls! i feel a lot better! Its so nice to know that so many of you can relate..thanks for everything!
Mrs. V 2008
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Posted by yelley77
Your FH loves YOU and he would never do anything to jeopardize your relationship. Good men don't cave in to sleezball friends and it seems to me like you have a good man.
He'll be home before you know it!!!
Do you need a night at the nutty while he is gone?
lol i might! but my bparty may be the same weekend..i hope!
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YOu are so not a psycho! My FH had his last week, and I got into a huge fight with him the night before. He did nothing wrong, mind you, it was me being crazy. I said I was fine with him going out with his friends to a strip club, and then the night before, I got crazy. He too has one friend similar to the one you described. I made myself sick over this. My brother was there, and texted me all night how geeky fh's friends are, and how I have nothing to worry about. FH did get lap dances, which made me sick, but my brother again said that it was so harmless -- he was sitting in a line with a bunch of other guys getting lap dances, and that the girls were so fake and not appealing. My brother doesn't bullsh*t me either. My brother and FH actually also crashed a bat Mitvah at the W hotel where they were having drinks before the strip club, and they both said going to the chocolate fountain there was the highlight of their night. Sooooo, you are totally normal to be worried, but I don't think you have anything to worry about!
