Please don't all think I complain too much but..

I am in such a sad mood right now...it is so insignificant the reason why I am feeling down, but I feel like I have no one to talk to...FH will call me nuts...my co worker tells me she agrees then starts talking about something else...and well, I don't really have anyone right now in my life I can confide in.

I used to work with a bunch of girls and then I lost my job...they all still work there...they promised they were my girls no matter what, now none of them return my phone calls...and they all said they would book a room the night of my wedding to party with me after...I just sent an email to one girl who still kind of makes an effort...and she wrote me back...no one wants to book a room anymore, sorry....I mean, why are they so rude? I am trying to maintain friendships with all of them and they all act like they don't care...and why tell me you would book a room then decide all of a sudden not to? I just feel really down and alone lately...my BP never returns my calls or emails either except my MOH and one girl...I have five other ones!

I dunno...I just needed to get this out of my system in writing, it helps me cope.

Thanks girls...

if you have to beg fro friendship its not worth it...

You know - sometimes people get caught up in life and seem to forget that these little things they do can really hurt a persons feelings.

In terms of the girls you used to work with Screw Them! Seriously, no one needs 'Friends' like that! What losers! Make sure you uninvite them from the wedding ASAP! That is just a bunch of negative energy that you really don't deserve on the most beautiful day of your life. I would make sure to let them know how unfortunate it is that they no longer want to be a part of your life and while you are disappointed that at least you are not a two-faced biitch! Sorry - I just HATE people like that!

I life in CT and most of my girls live in other states. Everyone else is married and has a life of their own and it can really suuck from time to time. We are all here for you all the time and if you ever want to talk you are free to FM me any time you like!

As women we need to work harder to cultivate and grow our friendships. Make sure that you are making it clear to your friends how much you need them right now. Be CLEAR and to the point. Some people really just DON'T GET IT!

You are not crazy! Talk to you soon!

Shanna

Sorry you are going through this

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Posted by charisma

if you have to beg fro friendship its not worth it...

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couldn't have said it better!!!

To me, it doesn't seem like they were your girls at all, not even your friends. Aquaintance's maybe. Sorry to be so blunt, but.....your better off without them. Begging for a friendship, like someone said before, just isn't worth the time or effort. Your a bigger and better person than to be doing that

Wow..maybe its best that they arent your friends. Real friends would def. answer ur emails and phone calls and would follow through with what they promised. I am so sorry that there is no one is wants to listen to you....but remember we are always here for you. Please FM me if you need to chat.

They $uck so move on and write them off. I am the first to admit I don't have many friends but the few that I have are good one. My part of the wedding list consists of 10 couples. Two of which are in the bridal party.
So focus on the friends that are there for you in times of need and times of joy and screw the ones that aren't. Feel free to vent anytime.

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Posted by iamvocal72

You know - sometimes people get caught up in life and seem to forget that these little things they do can really hurt a persons feelings.

In terms of the girls you used to work with Screw Them! Seriously, no one needs 'Friends' like that! What losers! Make sure you uninvite them from the wedding ASAP! That is just a bunch of negative energy that you really don't deserve on the most beautiful day of your life. I would make sure to let them know how unfortunate it is that they no longer want to be a part of your life and while you are disappointed that at least you are not a two-faced biitch! Sorry - I just HATE people like that!

I life in CT and most of my girls live in other states. Everyone else is married and has a life of their own and it can really suuck from time to time. We are all here for you all the time and if you ever want to talk you are free to FM me any time you like!

As women we need to work harder to cultivate and grow our friendships. Make sure that you are making it clear to your friends how much you need them right now. Be CLEAR and to the point. Some people really just DON'T GET IT!

You are not crazy! Talk to you soon!

Shanna

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Thanks for the support! Thank you all ladies, now I know I am not alone!

I know exactly what you're going through!!! Here's my vent!!! I left a job, 1 year ago, yesterday, and worked there for TEN years!!! I keep in touch with THREE people(tried with others, but like you, they just don't want to be bothered)!!! Ok, so one of them leaves, has a baby, NEVER invites me to see her baby, after countless emails asking to come over. She made me PROMISE i would take pictures of her baby, cause she loves my photography, so I told her I would. I kept asking when was good to go over and take pics, she NEVER emailed back so I gave up. I didn't bother calling, cause she's got a reputation for never returning phone calls either! She would send out funny emails, etc, but would never reply to mine. SOOOOO, with that said, we decided to have a last minute engagement party, instead of the planned one in April, because FH sister was visiting from Italy with her family and we wanted her to be included in it since they wouldn't be back until the wedding in Oct. This 'friend' gets wind of it, emails me all upset that I didn't invite her. KEEP IN MIND, it was LAST minute, AND I had to keep it SMALL because of the place we were having it at. I could only invite 75 people, and about 50 of those people were IMMEDIATE family!! The rest were some of FH co-workers, and my really close friends. I WOULD have invited her, BUT she's one who says she'll go to things and then backs out, PLUS I never heard from her, UNTIL she heard about the party. SO, now she won't talk to me, and I just don't get it!!!!!! I haven't even been invited to see her baby, who is almost 5 months old, and I'm not upset with her, and I'm the one with the REAL excuse to be!!!! I forgave her and moved on!! I just don't get people. Shows you who your REAL friends truly are!!!

I say FUK THEM!!! and party with your real girls from LIW ahahahahah

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Posted by Elise&Matt

I say FUK THEM!!! and party with your real girls from LIW ahahahahah

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LMAO that's right!

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Posted by eeelisas

I know exactly what you're going through!!! Here's my vent!!! I left a job, 1 year ago, yesterday, and worked there for TEN years!!! I keep in touch with THREE people(tried with others, but like you, they just don't want to be bothered)!!! Ok, so one of them leaves, has a baby, NEVER invites me to see her baby, after countless emails asking to come over. She made me PROMISE i would take pictures of her baby, cause she loves my photography, so I told her I would. I kept asking when was good to go over and take pics, she NEVER emailed back so I gave up. I didn't bother calling, cause she's got a reputation for never returning phone calls either! She would send out funny emails, etc, but would never reply to mine. SOOOOO, with that said, we decided to have a last minute engagement party, instead of the planned one in April, because FH sister was visiting from Italy with her family and we wanted her to be included in it since they wouldn't be back until the wedding in Oct. This 'friend' gets wind of it, emails me all upset that I didn't invite her. KEEP IN MIND, it was LAST minute, AND I had to keep it SMALL because of the place we were having it at. I could only invite 75 people, and about 50 of those people were IMMEDIATE family!! The rest were some of FH co-workers, and my really close friends. I WOULD have invited her, BUT she's one who says she'll go to things and then backs out, PLUS I never heard from her, UNTIL she heard about the party. SO, now she won't talk to me, and I just don't get it!!!!!! I haven't even been invited to see her baby, who is almost 5 months old, and I'm not upset with her, and I'm the one with the REAL excuse to be!!!! I forgave her and moved on!! I just don't get people. Shows you who your REAL friends truly are!!!

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I said it before but I'll say it again, I am so glad I am not the only one going through this, I felt like there was something wrong with me...but, people in general just s uck

Sorry about ur situation too!