PLEASE HELP: Hair 9-1-1

I have hair apppointment today!

I am trying to find pictures of how I want my hair colored.

I double process now, dye-lighter & highlight.

It's too red. I THINK I want it more light brown & lighter highlights.

I need pictures. know any websites?

can't find anything in magazines, are highlights 'out'. All I see in the 'stars' are deep solid color???

HELP!!!

This is the last change I am chancing before wedding.