I have 4 really great college friends that I lived with for 4 years...they are all in the bridal party in addition to my 2 cousins. I already made one of the girls my MOH (havent announced it to the others yet) b/c she is the one i'm most in contact with over the more recent years. Actually, the girl I made my MOH is excited and helping me an all but isnt AS excited as 2 of the others. All of these girls from college are my BEST friends. (Not to mention they all live out of state) Do I make more than one MOH?? I feel like they may get offended since when I announce that I chose one of them even though I'm sure it will all be fine. They are just all so unique and special to me.
what do i do now?
TIA
bulldoglover
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you can have as many MOH as you want but if you want to stay with one, maybe give the other BM some other parts of the wedding to participate in? maybe a reading during your ceremony?
sophisticat13
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I had 2 MOHs (my sisters) because I couldn't choose between them, I am close to both...and so did one of my friends...but I'm thinking if you have 4, it kind of defeats the purpose for having a MOH. If I was you, I'd keep things the way they are...the important thing is that all your close friends are in your BP and sharing the excitement with you. But tha's JMO...it's your wedding, if you really want to have 4 MOHs why not?
sandybeaches115
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bump...any thoughts?
cavvento
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I think it's nice to stick to one maid of honor, because it is just that - the maid with the honor. I feel like too many waters things down. This person doesn't necessarily have to be the one that's most excited about your day but rather the one that's the closest to you, who you want to bestow this honor on. For me, my moh is my cousin who lives in Texas and who will thus have very little hands on involvement in the planning. She's still the one though that I want to be the main witness by my side on that day. I hope this helps!
JAAMS
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Hmmm I think you can really have as many MOHs as you want... but I think having more than 2 kinda defeats the purpose of MOH. I'd leave it as 1, or just ask one more girl and have 2.
