Please Help Me Calm Down or Join in my Pitty Party

Original post by bemyyoko

Jan 30, 2008 01:16 PM

Ladies,
without giving any specific details, I need your help.
LIE to me and tell me that EVERYTHING will be okay.

I feel like the past 2 weeks everything has fallen apart both with the wedding and with personal issues including FH's grandfather.

I have been crying all day and can't stop shaking.

I know, I'm lame and I'm whiney and I'm needy. If you don't like it... skip this post

TIA lol

mrspalomino148 Posted: Jan 30, 2008 02:36 PM

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aww heres a hug cause you probably need one .. and just so you know everything WILL get better! I swear the last few weeks are so emotional for us brides on purpose so we know even through bad times you and your FH will be ok.

And on that day I promise you nothing will get you down when your walking towards your future Mr., it is one of the BEST feelings in the world!

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted: Jan 30, 2008 02:38 PM

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Oh Kerri I am so sorry to hear you are going through a rough time. Just think of the pics you took at Jess' wedding and try to laugh.

Ms Sawney Posted: Jan 30, 2008 02:39 PM

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you will be ok I think every bride has a down time you will get past whatever is going on

SB7308 Posted: Jan 30, 2008 02:39 PM

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Posted by bemyyoko

ladies thank you!
I just read your replies and it felt so nice to hear some of you say it was normal.

i'm trying to focus on the good things with the wedding and let go of the worry about the bad b/c all of that stuff is out of my control right now.

For those of you who've asked, FH's Grandfather is having open heart surgery tomorrow at 6am. We are all keeping our hopes high and putting everything into God's hands.
This man is a stubborn old Italian and if anyone can pull through this, it'll be him.

Thank you all for your support.

I had open heart surgey when I was 1 1/2 old and i'm great. With the technology now, FH grandfather will do great!!!
For a speedy recovery

Mici n KC Posted: Jan 30, 2008 02:45 PM

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Hang in there! Everything will be great with the surgery tomorrow. for a speedy recovery!

TGs Lady 22908 Posted: Jan 30, 2008 03:16 PM

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Kerri!!!

I hope everything goes well with your grandfather tomorrow, I will keep him in my thoughts.

As for wedding stuff...TRUST ME everything will be fine....it's normal to freak and your wedding will be BEAUTIFUL!! (Hello Pot, my name is Kettle...maybe I should take my own advice )

If you need anything FM!!

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: Jan 30, 2008 03:36 PM

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I refuse to lie to you but I can tell you that everything will be OK - whether it be in 2 days or 2 years or 20 years... everything will be OK.

Whatever is going on will pass, you will get over it, get through it and come out stronger.