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Please, Need Serious Advice!

justustwo48 Posted:

Please, Need Serious Advice!

I think I'm going insane!

Ok, so I had posted a dress opinion poll the other day and the scenario was that I was about to potentially become a 2 dress bride

They have already started work on my other dress which I do love but something isn't sitting right with me and I think I'm in love with a different dress. What do I do? They are both equally gorgeous and I'd be happy with either one on my wedding day but there is still something nagging me! Plus, I'd be stuck with 2 dresses and over $2,000 in costs between the two!

Please help!! Tell me to stop going crazy!!
krislee316 Posted:

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wait until they finish the work on the first one then if you still dont feel 'right' get the other HTH

JennyAPH Posted:

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STOP GOING CRAZY

Do you think you are just second guessing yourself about your first dress? I did this for months after I ordered it and I am sure i will do it again when it actually comes in...There are so many dresses out there and its a big decision.

I am sure you will LOVE your dress and be so happy with it on your wedding day
AFutureBride Posted:

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Honestly, I was having doubts about the dress I picked and I am still kind of unsure.

I decided I would just stop talking about the dress and stop looking at other dresses. Just leave it be. I am sure you look WONDERFUL in both of the dresses, so don't stress yourself out!

There are so many bigger problems than what you'll be wearing on your wedding day. Plus I feel like all this confusion takes away from the actual reason we are getting married.

You'll look great, save your money or put in towards something that you really wanted for the wedding but passed on because of how much it cost.

Good Luck!
justustwo48 Posted:

Re: Please, Need Serious Advice!


Posted by AFutureBride

Honestly, I was having doubts about the dress I picked and I am still kind of unsure.

I decided I would just stop talking about the dress and stop looking at other dresses. Just leave it be. I am sure you look WONDERFUL in both of the dresses, so don't stress yourself out!

There are so many bigger problems than what you'll be wearing on your wedding day. Plus I feel like all this confusion takes away from the actual reason we are getting married.

You'll look great, save your money or put in towards something that you really wanted for the wedding but passed on because of how much it cost.

Good Luck!



Thank you!!! That is exactly what I needed! I do love the one I have and I felt amazing in it and I don't think anything else could really compare!

This is why I love this site! Thank you ladies!!!
MrsList09 Posted:

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I think it's the fear of the unknown and buyer's remorse. Just pick one and stop thinking about it. You have enough things to do without worrying about 2 dresses with fittings and all that!

AFutureBride Posted:

Re: Please, Need Serious Advice!


Posted by justustwo48


Posted by AFutureBride

Honestly, I was having doubts about the dress I picked and I am still kind of unsure.

I decided I would just stop talking about the dress and stop looking at other dresses. Just leave it be. I am sure you look WONDERFUL in both of the dresses, so don't stress yourself out!

There are so many bigger problems than what you'll be wearing on your wedding day. Plus I feel like all this confusion takes away from the actual reason we are getting married.

You'll look great, save your money or put in towards something that you really wanted for the wedding but passed on because of how much it cost.

Good Luck!



Thank you!!! That is exactly what I needed! I do love the one I have and I felt amazing in it and I don't think anything else could really compare!

This is why I love this site! Thank you ladies!!!



I'm glad to help. Always remember to keep things in Perspective. That is key.

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