i feel like murder right now. I have honesly been such a calm bride. Then last night was the first night I couldn't sleep and now everyone is pissing me off! my mom is complaining about the cost of hair yet shes known how much it is for a year!!! and shes complaining she doesnt like some of my BMS. AND i got yelled at for not reminding her the money for the florist is due friday when she was in the same meeting i was when we were told this!!
then my wedding ring was supposed to come in a month ago and they keep pushing it back. i just called and she told me it will be ready saturday and i snapped and told her it will be ready friday cause thats when ill be in long island!!! i think i scared her. i think i can honestly kill someone.
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Don't worry! I lost it last week, just the same way, completely lost it. It will be okay. Just take it one step at a time. As isolated incidents, none of these is terrible. They're just kind of snowballing. Remember that, and you should be okay. My mom drove me a bit nuts too. I think it's all normal. Crazy, huh?
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I'm getting married two weeks after you and feel almost the same way - so I sure hope it's normal!!
The level of stress is through the roof right now, so I'm sure that's all it is.
sweetdreamz1181
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dont worry im sure everthing will work out and be fine... all the stess is normal
magbride
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I'm sure it is. When I get stressed, I get cranky. Hang in there!
Jennifer907
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Oh, it's normal. For the past week or 2, I have been crying at least 3 times a day. I have screamed into my pillow several times. My poor FH gets the brunt of it. I scream at him for every little thing anyone else does to annoy me. I'm hoping it will all go away once we walk down the aisle.
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hahaha!! Yes!!! You are normal!!! I was ready to freakin' kill people the 2 weeks before my wedding...which is why i hung this sign on the door to my house!! Don't worry...it'll go away the day of!!
hahaha!! Yes!!! You are normal!!! I was ready to freakin' kill people the 2 weeks before my wedding...which is why i hung this sign on the door to my house!! Don't worry...it'll go away the day of!!
i love this sign. what do you mean??? im gonna be like this until the day of??
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i love this sign. what do you mean??? im gonna be like this until the day of??
well i hope not!! But i was just miserable the whole week before, so much left to do...OOTers showing up a week before and constantly hanging out at my house when they had a waterfront hotel to stay at...haha...i finally told Dh the house was OFF LIMITS for his family...oh i was a raging nut...and i am usually a very sweet happy fun loving type...but i did wake up the day of in the best mood & i had the happiest day of my life...hang in there...and punch a few pillows if that'll help
jaiese
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Yoga helps too!!
LB and DC
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don't worry, this is totally normal. i snapped myself about 2 weeks ago. this amount of stress would ruffle the feathers of even the most serene bride. from what it seems like, you aren't being unreasonable about anything, just reacting to other people placing unneeded stress on you. i would explain to your mother that her griping is not going to change anything and is only making you feel bad. as for the jeweler - good for you for sticking up for yourself! this should have been done already, and they need to accept that and deliver on their promises. good luck with everything!!
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I think this is a normal feeling. I am getting married 2 days before you and I can just fly off the handle right now and this is not my typical personality.
It just gets very stressful towards the end of the planning.
You'll get through this.
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Oh sweetie, I am so sorry to hear about all the stress you are going through right now.
