Pls. help..need NYE advice.

kittyke Posted: Dec 30, 2004 03:09 PM

Pls. help..need NYE advice.

Would you be mad if your spouse did NOT want to go with you to your Best Friends house for a small NYE Party, just because you don't enjoy yourself there? On a second note would you stay home with him or her ?

EDITED - Worded it wrong, fixed..sorry !

Irishbride Posted: Dec 30, 2004 03:24 PM

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I would probably be mad but I would go anyway.

BabyonBoard Posted: Dec 30, 2004 03:29 PM

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i would be upset and doubt I would go b/c I think that you should ring in the new year with your S/O even if it means making a choice between friends.

but its a hard decision sorry you have to be in this prediciment

TwoBugs Posted: Dec 30, 2004 03:33 PM

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I would def. be mad, but I would stay home. I spent a NYE without my DH and I felt so incredibly lonely, even though I was surrounded by good friends.

DjPiLL Posted: Dec 30, 2004 03:33 PM

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Just go together.

Kriss2c Posted: Dec 30, 2004 03:34 PM

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I would try to compromise and go to the G2G but leave early to be alone with your honey.

lilmrs Posted: Dec 30, 2004 03:37 PM

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Posted by Kriss2c

I would try to compromise and go to the G2G but leave early to be alone with your honey.

this is what I was going to suggest as well.

1017Bride Posted: Dec 30, 2004 03:37 PM

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This happened to me in reverse. I went to my ex-boyfriend's best friend's NYE party one year. It was so boring. All the guys were either watching sports or hanging outside in the cold! Most of the girls were either outside or were not that friendly. I met one nice girl towards the end and we talked for a while. My ex BF just wanted to watch sports and didn't seem to care I was having a terrible time. If we had gone again I would have said just to go to say hi to everyone and for us to just do something on our own.

nov04LIbride Posted: Dec 30, 2004 04:05 PM

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I am usually the one who would rather stay home! But if that was the situation, I would definitely rather ring in the New Year with my husband instead of alone! You need that midnite kiss!

luvsbob4603 Posted: Dec 30, 2004 06:35 PM

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this year i am going to my friends house with Dh and next year we will be ringing new years eve in Disneyworld. so we compromised and said ok this year we will go to my friends house and next year we will spend it with your family and he agreed. maybe you can talk to him and make a compromise saying how about this year we spend it at my friends house and Next year we will go to your friends house. I hope it works out.