Ok so this (topic) probably should be left in the hands of Gina her posts crack me up but I really want to know if I'm being silly....
Have any of you girls taken a renewed vow of celibacy until the wedding?? FH and I did about a month ago and it has been pure and utter h%ll!!! We live together and it is soooooo hard? We are already looking forward to the cocktail hour for other reasons than food
Do you think it's stupid? Considering we have already done the deed a billion wonderful times??
MirabellaNYC
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we won't be celibate....sorry, hormones!
missjones2007
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no its not stupid...if you wait awhile...it will be the bomb on honeymoon because you havent had none in a while and there will be more emotion and feelings deeply involved because that will be your husband...we decided to wait too
WishfulRinne
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We havent discussed it yet but I have been thinking about it....
BarbieGrl10
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Posted by MirabellaNYC
we won't be celibate....sorry, hormones!
ITA!
JoAnnJuneBride
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that is exactly what i tell FH every night when he gets second thoughts.
KerriJohnS
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Thought about it. never mentioned it to him. Hasnt happened yet. IDK.
caligirl87
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We are being celebrate. I know not all ladies agree, but it was really important to us the whole time we've dated.
EmiNoa628
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we will wait for after the wedding.... we are making up for it now... IDK if we will wait 3-4 wks until the wedding...
Who can resist a charming, sexy, romantic, muscular MAN!!!
coldasice217
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My whole life is a fugging vow of celibacy.
Yes, that's anger in my voice, because I'm wound too tight and frustrated.
But I'm a little effed in the head from some stuff so I wouldn't go by me. If that's what you want to do, then go for it. Personally, if my own situation was different, I wouldn't do it myself because I would feel like a hypocrite, but I don't judge other girls who do make that choice because I'm sure everyone else has their own valid reasons.
Haha I'll leave now, I shouldn't even be answering these adult topics of which I'm too naive to speak
JoAnnJuneBride
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Wow!! I have so much respect for you!!! You know once you start you are going to be like 'Look at what I have been missing...:
lol:
Karsav7096
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I don't think that could be an option for us FYI I was thinking the same thing about CH until my friend that worked at our RH said they had cameras in the bridal suite for security purposes. So just beware or you may find yourself on sextube.c@m.
coldasice217
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I don't think that could be an option for us FYI I was thinking the same thing about CH until my friend that worked at our RH said they had cameras in the bridal suite for security purposes. So just beware or you may find yourself on sextube.c@m.
Ok, I have to come back for this now haha. When me and FH had a tasting in November, they set us up in what will be our bridal suite, which is pretty large and spacious, and he started getting pervy ideas for the day of, and then we noticed the giant sign on the table that we were being videotaped There goes that idea!
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FH said we should do that for the three months until the wedding but we failed. . might try again. . and for me it's not about feeling like a virgin (to quote Madonna) but just to make it more special on the wedding night. . . we'll see. . I think it depends on why you are doing it! (or not)
JoAnnJuneBride
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I don't think that could be an option for us FYI I was thinking the same thing about CH until my friend that worked at our RH said they had cameras in the bridal suite for security purposes. So just beware or you may find yourself on sextube.c@m.
OMG!!! R U SERIOUS!!!!! I have to show this to FH although he will probably die when he sees me talking about this on a public forum...
Summertimegal424
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in my opinion i think its rediculous for us. We live together and practically are married, except i dont have his last name. it would be silly to do that. i joke with him about it all the time tho.
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JoAnnJuneBride
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Posted by coldasice217
Posted by Karsav7096
I don't think that could be an option for us FYI I was thinking the same thing about CH until my friend that worked at our RH said they had cameras in the bridal suite for security purposes. So just beware or you may find yourself on sextube.c@m.
Ok, I have to come back for this now haha. When me and FH had a tasting in November, they set us up in what will be our bridal suite, which is pretty large and spacious, and he started getting pervy ideas for the day of, and then we noticed the giant sign on the table that we were being videotaped There goes that idea!
I could see your title now.. Season Premiere!! I bet yours would get wayyy more hits than my (*reruns*)
geegee827
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We've never talked about it. I feel like it might happen naturally though . I've noticed whenever FH and I have a lot going on, it's sometimes hard for us to make the time - so I can only imagine in the crazy weeks before the wedding that we probably won't be getting much lovin' in.
However, we'll make up for it on our 24 day HM!!!
gina409
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hey i think its great if u do..great if u want to wait..no answer is the right one
for us..we just couldnt do it cause sex is just too much fun
Sweeteey51
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Well probably be celibate a week or two before the wedding..lmao. thats as far as it goes.