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Will you wait until after the first trimester to break the news to everyone? I've always felt that it's best (for me anyway) to wait the 3 months. I know it'll be hard, but given what just happened to my friend (she lost the baby at 9 weeks) I'm even more positive now that I'll wait to break the news....
I was not able to hold it in at all!!! I found out on a Friday night, Saturday I had it confirmed by the RE and Sunday I was telling my family. They would have known something was up if I didn't tell them because my mom and my 3 close cousins knew I was having insemination that month. DH lied to 1 of my cousins because she called and he told her it didn't work...we wanted to tell her in person.
Posted by bxgell2
With my first pregnancy (that ended in miscarriage at 6 weeks), I told my family and closest friends. To be honest, I couldn't imagine it any other way. Going through a miscarriage is so devastating and emotionally difficult - there's no way I could have made it through without the support of my closest friends and family. When I got pregnant againt the next month, I did the same - told my family and closest friends. Again, although I've made it to almost 17 weeks now, the first trimester was soooooooo stressful, so I didn't think twice about telling them because I needed the support!
