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POLL -- If you really want something from DH/FH.. will you use the 'waterworks' to get your way?

OctGroom Posted:

POLL -- If you really want something from DH/FH.. will you use the 'waterworks' to get your way?

sarahthegreat Posted:

Re: POLL -- If you really want something from DH/FH.. will you use the 'waterworks' to get your way?

after 3 years together, we have never had that kind of disagreement. but generally i don't cry to get my way...babies do that and i am def. NOT a baby!!

prncssrachel Posted:

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I'm my own woman and anything I want, I get for myself.

OctGroom Posted:

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Posted by 121502

I'm my own woman and anything I want, I get for myself.



and that's why you're STILL the goddess!
JodiBabe Posted:

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I answered the last one because I pretty much get whatever I want from him (He doesn't know how to say no to me) Or I do it myself!
OctBride05 Posted:

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Posted by JodiJohn903

I answered the last one because I pretty much get whatever I want from him (He doesn't know how to say no to me) Or I do it myself!


same here
Elizabeth Posted:

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I didnt answer the poll because my choice is not there. I would never use the tears as a manipulation. Period. Not because it would or wouldnt work on my DH. I actually dont know if it would or wouldnt work because I never tried. If I've ever cried to or in front of him, it's been genuine tears that would have come either way. I have a son and although he's still small, I dont play the 'sad Mommy' trick with him either, like if I want a hug from him and he's 'too busy'.

Misstene Posted:

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I am very independent, and don't 'need' anything (except love and attention) so if there is anything I really want, I'll get if for myself. On the rare occassion, if he is giving me a difficult time about something, and he very seldom does... he's great... but if he did, I'll have a 'chat' with him, play on his guilt a little, and help him see things my way. I will disclose however that it's a two way street, and sometimes he helps me see things as he sees it. Most of the time... I emerge victorious!

I never manipulate him. I never ever use water works. He wouldn't tolerate it, and I wouldn't expect him to. He's into strong women and I have too much pride I suppose!
june262004 Posted:

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I don't want to sound spoiled and nasty but I ask and I usually get. he is so good to me.
deedee Posted:

Re: POLL -- If you really want something from DH/FH.. will you use the 'waterworks' to get your way?

I use the 'reverse psychology'method. I entertain the idea and then I quickly let him think I can do without it.
works every time..
june262004 Posted:

Re: POLL -- If you really want something from DH/FH.. will you use the 'waterworks' to get your way?

Posted by deedee

I use the 'reverse psychology'method. I entertain the idea and then I quickly let him think I can do without it.
works every time..



LOL.
Marcela1654 Posted:

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Posted by Elizabeth

I didnt answer the poll because my choice is not there. I would never use the tears as a manipulation. Period. Not because it would or wouldnt work on my DH. I actually dont know if it would or wouldnt work because I never tried. If I've ever cried to or in front of him, it's been genuine tears that would have come either way.


Same here.
gaby25 Posted:

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Posted by june262004

I don't want to sound spoiled and nasty but I ask and I usually get. he is so good to me.


Same here
butterfly20 Posted:

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i normally get what i want too...
if there is something big that we disagree on we talk it through...
Becky Posted:

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Never in a million years would I do that. Crying on cue to get your way is emotional blackmail and very manipulative. Besides, I am not a crier and I can not stand for anyone to see me cry.

NYCHICK Posted:

Re: POLL -- If you really want something from DH/FH.. will you use the 'waterworks' to get your way?

Posted by Becky

Never in a million years would I do that. Crying on cue to get your way is emotional blackmail and very manipulative. Besides, I am not a crier and I can not stand for anyone to see me cry.

RedHead Posted:

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Of course
MarcellaBella Posted:

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I voted

'NO -- I just go do what I want.. his approval is not the be all/end all.'
nrvbrd Posted:

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Posted by Marcela1654

Posted by Elizabeth

I didnt answer the poll because my choice is not there. I would never use the tears as a manipulation. Period. Not because it would or wouldnt work on my DH. I actually dont know if it would or wouldnt work because I never tried. If I've ever cried to or in front of him, it's been genuine tears that would have come either way.


Same here.


EXACTLY!!!!

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