Poll: Vows-Writing your own or using 'Standard'?

using the standard and adding this for the priest to read:



The officiant reads:

'Please face each other and hold hands, so you may feel the gift you are to one another.

These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and full of love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as you promise to love each other today tomorrow and forever.

These are the hands that will work alongside yours as together you build your future.

These are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through the years, and with the slightest touch, will comfort you like no other.

These are the hands that will hold you when fear or grief wracks your mind.

These are the hands that will countless times, wipe the tears from your eyes, tears of sorrow and tears of joy.

These are the hands that will tenderly hold your children.

These are the hands that will help you to hold your family as one.

These are the hands that will give you strength when you need it.

And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch'

-Author unknown.

paiz your wedding date says 4/26/02? when are you getting married?
all the best!

Using the standard ones with a slight variation.

Also doing a modified hands ceremony as posted by Jenn above.

we 'wrote' our own (took bits and pieces from the internet)

try here UW