Poll: What would you do?

Poll: What would you do?

My 'dilemma':
I became very close with a coworker over the past year went to her bridal shower, wedding, and now invited to baby shower.
Problem is I also got an invite to a bridal shower of a good friend whom I hardly get to see...Showers are taking place on the SAME day.
What would you do? I am leaning toward the bridal shower, considering I dont get to see her very often...
All advice is appreciated..TIA

Re: Poll: What would you do?

is it possible to make a stop at both?? if not i would send a gift to the co-worker but go to ur friends party if u have not seen her in along time

Re: Poll: What would you do?

I would definitely say the bridal shower since you mention that you havent' seen that friend so often. Is there any way you can stop by the baby shower or they are not locateda near each other?

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I cant stop at both, they are far from each other and start around the same time. Thank you ladies for advice. I will see what others say and 'sleep' on it (for a few days)
Thanks again.

Re: Poll: What would you do?

Your welcome and good luck!

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It depends on how close you are to the people. if you're closer to the coworker, then go with the coworker, but since you said you never get to see the relative and you did get to see the coworker, then i'd robbaly lean toward the bridal shower. you can send a gift to the coworker and then go to the rbidal shower. Will thre be a work baby shower for this coworker?

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I would go to the bridal shower since you haven't seen this friend in a while! than just give a gift to your co-worker if they are having a babyshower at work than give her the gift than.

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bridal shower...I am sure your co-worker would understand since you see her more often!

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try for both and if not, I'd favor the good friend and send a nice gift to baby shower