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POLL.. Which of the following would be unacceptable to you if you know your FH/FW did this?

OctGroom Posted:

POLL.. Which of the following would be unacceptable to you if you know your FH/FW did this?

I don't mind # 1 or 2.
But #3 is borderline and definitely especially #4 would drive me crazy!

Plus.. do anything of these scenarios with the exception of #4 constitute cheating???

Thoughts....
[email protected] Posted:

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Playfully flirting with a member of the opposite sex either online or in a bar.

A Clinton/ Lewinsky situation.


prncssrachel Posted:

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He wouldn't do any of them, so it's kind of a moot point, but I don't care what he talks about with his friends (especially because I know they NEVER EVER talk about sex, isn't that weird?), but any of the other ones, IF he did them would justify me kicking the ever living shite out of him.
Xelindrya Posted:

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3 & 4 are more than a tif. I'd kill him.
julz33 Posted:

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Posted by [email protected]



Playfully flirting with a member of the opposite sex either online or in a bar.

A Clinton/ Lewinsky situation.





Me 2.
cocoa Posted:

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i voted for clinton/lewinsky, but #3 is borderline. if it were at a bar, fine, i'm playfully flirtatious too...however, going online goes into different territory that i wouldn't be comfortable with.

HearzBellz Posted:

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for once I am in the majority!

The Clinton/Lewinsky thing is so not acceptable

I am kinda leaning toward the Internet thing too....but not quite decided.
kpny622 Posted:

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#1, #2 - fine
#3, #4 - hell to pay
Kriss2c Posted:

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I voted for all of the above, with less emphasis with the talking about and staring at anatomy.

TJW Posted:

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1 & 2 I wouldnt care
3- would piss me off
4- Unacceptable

HearzBellz Posted:

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Posted by TJW

1 & 2 I wouldnt care
3- would piss me off
4- Unacceptable




Well said
Bride2B93 Posted:

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Posted by julz33


Posted by [email protected]



Playfully flirting with a member of the opposite sex either online or in a bar.

A Clinton/ Lewinsky situation.





Me 2.



me too
tourist Posted:

Re: POLL.. Which of the following would be unacceptable to you if you know your FH/FW did this?

I voted all of the above, some are worse than others.

1 & 2 would bother me, because it is disrepectful. ( to the object of the stares & talk, not to me so much)
FH always gets annoyed when he sees guys turn around and stare at a girl's @SS as seh walks by--more annoyed than me actaully. . .so he wouldn't do that.
Generally appreciating someone as attractive is different, and perfectly ok.

#3 is the one I have the least problem with. Especailly if it was in a bar. It's just talk, and he'd never see her again.
Online is different, b/c that could become a constant thing.

#4 is completely unnaceptable.

diamondgrlie Posted:

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For me it would be the Clinton/Lewisnky thing of course and flirting in a bar. Not so much online though...

OctGroom Posted:

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I am totally shocked by the 17 ALL of the Above's'.. very interesting.

gertyrae Posted:

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#3 and #4 are definitely out....and so would he be. I think #2 would be cause for a major argument if I were there and he were obvious about it. Mind you, if he were at a strip club it would be okay, but just hanging out it would be embarrasing.
I think flirting online is kind of like cheating, the intentions are definitely there.
'That's just my opinion, I could be wrong'
Rainmama Posted:

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Posted by OctGroom

I am totally shocked by the 17 ALL of the Above's'.. very interesting.



Personally, I'm more shocked by the 2 people who voted 'none of the above.' Hmmmmmmm....
OctGroom Posted:

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Posted by gertyrae

#3 and #4 are definitely out....and so would he be. I think #2 would be cause for a major argument if I were there and he were obvious about it. Mind you, if he were at a strip club it would be okay, but just hanging out it would be embarrasing.
I think flirting online is kind of like cheating, the intentions are definitely there.
'That's just my opinion, I could be wrong'




perfectly reasonable to me
OctGroom Posted:

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Posted by Rainmama


Posted by OctGroom

I am totally shocked by the 17 ALL of the Above's'.. very interesting.



Personally, I'm more shocked by the 2 people who voted 'none of the above.' Hmmmmmmm....




maybe it's an open marriage.

but to me .. if I am sitting aroung with the guys and the topic of a woman's posterior comes up.. I think we can talk about it and enlighten each other in the same vein as the Renaissance.
dm24angel Posted:

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Posted by diamondgrlie

For me it would be the Clinton/Lewisnky thing of course and flirting in a bar. Not so much online though...


Same here..unless the flirting was funny/innocent( yes I believe there is innocent flirting) and say I was present...

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