POLL:Who pays for the shower?

POLL:Who pays for the shower?

Re: POLL:Who pays for the shower?

Your BM and MOH.

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BMs and MOH, but the MOB can help, at leat my moim is helping because my sister doesn't have a lot of money.

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mine is being paid for my my BM's, Moh, my mom and my FMIL...

Re: POLL:Who pays for the shower?

knowing my mom, she will offer to pay for it all - but I know my bm & moh will want to put money in also.

Re: POLL:Who pays for the shower?

my shower my mom.

I feel bad for the bridemaids already spending so much money on everything..

Plus, that way they can get me a gift

Re: POLL:Who pays for the shower?

Re: POLL:Who pays for the shower?

my mom, my aunt and my bms are doing mine

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Well, I don't know who's paying for my shower since it's technically supposed to be a surprise that I am having one, but for my sister's shower, my aunt (mother of a BM) and I are paying for the shower. The other BM is getting married in May and I really don't want her money because I know she has SO much to pay for with her own wedding.

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definitely my mother. i would never expect my bridesmaids to contribute to a party for me (except of course the bachelorette party!!) if my mother couldn't afford it, i would forgo the shower.

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my mom and stepmom are paying, the BMs will probably chip in for decorations, invites, favors...i think.

Re: POLL:Who pays for the shower?

i think its a combination of my mom, FMIL and the BMs

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I think it will be mostly my mom but I'm sure my BM's will contribute (some of my bm's are my sister in laws etc)

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This is a tough situation for me and MOH because my mom is deceased and my aunt is already buying my dress. I am sure that FMIL will offer to help but Future IN-laws are also payign a lot for the wedding

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My mom paid the bulk of mine and all my bms chipped in.

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My MOH is also my sister and my mom are paying for it.

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My mother paid for mine. She really wanted to since I am the only girl. Although, I know MOH and brides maids pay too.

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I think traditionally it is MOH but nowadays MOB and MOH.

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i think my mom (well, that means my poor father) is paying. My bridesmaids are my sisters, and they are both poor!