So, no matter what they say, guys look at porn. Some more than others.
Do you put your foot down and say no porn ever? Do you kinda just and have an 'out of sight out of mind' attitude? Are you in denial that FH even likes porn?
FH and I were friends for years before dating and people always joked that he was the porn king because someone was once snooping on his computer and found a file. Poor guy. Im pretty sure it could happen to any guy in his situation
I honestly dont know where I stand on the issue. Im SURE he looks at it while Im not around, but how can I put my foot down on something I have no control over? I did ask, that if he does look at porn that he not pay for it. That money is for taking me out on dates not looking at hos on the internet.
Anyone have any thoughts on the issue?
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Once I was on FH's comp when he was in college, and I saw pictures that he had saved of porn stars...at first I was a little offended, but then I realized that hey, he's male...I read trashy romance novels that talk about the stuff that he sees- so no biggie!
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personally, I don't really care. It gets annoying when he sees things and wants to try them with me (I'm relatively open, but there are just some things...), but otherwise it really doesn't bother me. As long as he prefers sex with me to watching porn, it's fine. He really just uses porn when I'm not around, so whatever.
So, yeah. I've never put down any rules or anything. He's a smart boy, he knows where the lines are. I don't need to tell him.
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My FH swears up and down that he is totally not into porn. Even his friends say that he thinks porn chicks and strippers are nasty. Not sure if I completely buy it.
Personally I have no problem if he looks here and there. I don't think it's a big deal.
I would have a problem if he were more interested in looking at porn and diddling himself than me.
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Posted by brittny817
My FH swears up and down that he is totally not into porn. Even his friends say that he thinks porn chicks and strippers are nasty. Not sure if I completely buy it.
Personally I have no problem if he looks here and there. I don't think it's a big deal.
I would have a problem if he were more interested in looking at porn and diddling himself than me.
Sweetie, thats because he is engaged to a HOTTIE... duh!!!!
I hear you girls, it really is kind of a fact of life. I sometimes get a bit intimidated though...even the 'girls next door' type porn stars look pretty damn flawless to me, I just hope it doesnt lead to unrealistic expectations when my girls start heading south and I get to be an old broad! Im not opposed to watching it WITH him once in awhile, but I couldnt do that too often.
Glad to see everyone be so saucy!
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Posted by brittny817
My FH swears up and down that he is totally not into porn. Even his friends say that he thinks porn chicks and strippers are nasty. Not sure if I completely buy it.
Personally I have no problem if he looks here and there. I don't think it's a big deal.
I would have a problem if he were more interested in looking at porn and diddling himself than me.
Agreed.
Nina
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And thank you Melissa for your usual 'whack' thursday topics!!
I love it!!
hunnybunnyxoxo
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I have absolutely no problem!
MNM7to7
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I have no problem with it as long as he's not choosing it over me!!!!!
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nope no problems here with it. id rather him look at porn than doing other things. My FH swears he watches it to try new 'moves'......he is funny. at first it used to bother me but i figured its like a woman looking at guys half naked in a magazine or something. they are never going to get these girls so y does it matter. now ask me about going to to a strip club now thats a different story and a whole other topic....lol.
*nice topic. we need to spice things up on here a little
melbalalala
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*nice topic. we need to spice things up on here a little
Thanks!
Im tryin', I think we've worked some topics to the ground.
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I could care less if he looks at porn, hopefully he will share it with me....lololol XOXOXO Kitty
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i dont care what he does- he likes playby and the ww mags not so much hardcore porn- so i dont care
ant n tilde
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nah no rules - he wouldnt listen anyway
anyway it can be fun
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Posted by Nina
Posted by brittny817
My FH swears up and down that he is totally not into porn. Even his friends say that he thinks porn chicks and strippers are nasty. Not sure if I completely buy it.
Personally I have no problem if he looks here and there. I don't think it's a big deal.
I would have a problem if he were more interested in looking at porn and diddling himself than me.
Agreed.
i second that!!
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I recently found a GENEROUS stack of porn Dvds hidden in the house....like a lot At first I was so annoyed cause they all had big boobs and I'm a little bitty 32 A, but then thought about it and figured I'd rather it be fantasy porn than him actually going elsewhere. He'd be so embarassed if he knew I know!
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no rules it doesnt bother me at all, i like to watch it with him
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I used to not care at all, but over the years I've changed a lot. I requested that he not look at it unless we look together. It just bothers me a lot--theres really no need for it when you get sex almost everyday and I dont buy that 'its a guy thing' crap. Girls can be just as horny as guys and you dont see us with porn sites saved on our comps and dirty mags under our beds. Its disrespectful to me (JMHO) and if I found him with it there would be some major issues.
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We watch it together if anything! We love making fun of these people!-
I don't really care. Sometimes i'm the one that puts it on. We don't have tapes or anything- just the playboy channel. Sometimes we just laugh really hard bc it's so corney and cheesy.
